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My rant -Is there REALLY a skin "community"?

My rant -Is there REALLY a skin "community"?

I have been part of virtual communities for the past 15 years. I know what they are. I started out in the BBS world and we had a local area virtual community. It didn't have a name but we were all literally tied together by what was in the local phone exchange.

When the Internet came, I considered myself part of a larger community, the OS/2 community.

A community isn't necessarily homogenous but what makes something a "community" is the sense that it exceeds a certain threshold of closeness and that the majority of the participants have the same basic concept of what that community is.

But is there a "Skinning" community? I think not. Rather, there are several smaller communities with very distinct concepts of what that community is. I think there is a skeletal structure for a general skinning community but really, the communities are largely tied to the sites.

I think there is a Stardock community. And I think there is a WinCustomize community. I also think there is a DeviantART community as well as communities for each site. And I think there is some overlap.

But the overlap between these communities is often little to non existent in my opinion.

There is constant bickering over what actually IS the community. And I think a lot of that comes from such a diverse set of demographics. Look at the demograhpics of this site compared to say Customize.org. The average active participant here can legally drink alcohol in all states in the US and they have full time jobs.

When Skinz.org was at its height, I think there was an overall community, albeit a small one.

But I've become increasing frustrated, well let me be blunt, disgusted with certain parallel universe versions of the skin community. You have the anti-capitalists (I.e. "I haven't personally spent any real time contributing for the past year but I want to say that everything should be free! Rock on!"). You have the group that contributes some but does so out of ego-gratification (I.e. "I've done some modest work over the year and want to let you know that I"m king of the community and I will crush all those who oppose me! Worship me!"). I don't know which contigency is worse.

The former is definitely in full loudness this week in that Customize.org discussion on whether skin suites should be free or not.

And it really highlights this post's point - there is no single skin community. There are many competing visions. If I wrote a post "What do you think of people charging for skin suites" I think it's safe to say that the response would be overwhelmingly "Good for them!" here. But elsewhere you get the folks who think that it's okay for skin SITES to make money off of the work of skin authors but that skin authors should work for free. Skin authors are apparently to be slaves in this vision, slaves to skin sites who profit from their efforts.

I have gotten a real kick out of the "free beer" folks who have criticized WinCustomize because it's a "corporate site" (even though the most of the other sites are, just that in this case, our parent company is a software developer) yet this site has no banner ads, no pop ups, etc. I think it's GOOD for skin sites to make money. I think it's GOOD for them to have banner ads and whatever else they need to generate income. The difference though is that people, whoever they are, shouldn't delude themselves into thinking that selling a good or service is bad yet banner ads and pop up ads are okay. In all cases, the entity in question is trying to generate revenue to pay for those expenses.

My friend Jark took grief because he has set up a subscription service. Unbelievable. Grief from people who have contributed zilch. My friends Treetog/Alexandrie/Nuvem are taking grief because they want to charge a measely $10 in exchange for around TWENTY skins. My lunch cost more than $10 today. And of course, we're always taking grief from those who argue our software is free or that our software is doomed to be passed up by free alternatives (note to them: WB's kicking ass, people who can afford WB are choosing it over free alternatives).

Which brings me back to the beginning, there is no such thing as a single skin community. There are merely a confederation of communities, each thinking that they have the vision of what the skin community is.

I for one am thankful every day that this site, our news groups (check out news://news.stardock.com) have such wonderful cool people. I am thankful that many of the leaders of the other skin sites are so cool (I talk to Jark regularly, Scarebear is a great guy, and Chaz and I chat on IRC regularly and is a great guy too). But the events of the past few months have led me to basically stop caring what the other bitter nasty contigents think. At least in the sense of letting it dictate our actions.

Let the "free beer" folks complain and yell. Those who actually contribute are the ones whose opinions matter to me.

When we first started this site we took a lot of grief from the "free beer" folks and they eventually migrated elsewhere. I'm glad. I'm not interested in them. I don't consider them part of the community we all, together, have helped create. What we call that community doesn't matter. But it's our community. Created with care, kindness, and hard work. With people who respect each other and each other's efforts and are generous in heart. Ethically strong yet not overly judgemental of others. You guys are the type of people I want to be around. To be associated with.

Anyway, that's my rant for the day. Feel free to add yours.
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Reply #76 Top
bah, you're right, I'm wrong, I'll be going now.

Actually, I'm not wrong - but my mom always told me to drop an argument when the other side stops being rational.

Enjoy your microsoft liscenced skinning, folks.
Reply #77 Top
"my mom always told me to drop an argument when the other side stops being rational."

I guess we shouldn't have bothered listening to you after your first post, then.

Reply #78 Top
Seems I may as well leave too, as "Sir" JayG doesn't seem to have any facts to backup his discrimination accusation.
Reply #79 Top
Doreen just tell me what you would like instead of white
Reply #80 Top
I find Shoggot's comment quite interesting considering his incorrect claims about VDE and baseless claims of Stardock turning freeware apps into shareware.

Then again, the irony really is that the guy running around using words like "Evil" to describe his opponents and putting a "$" as part of the names of companies is now claiming to be the rational one.

Apparently, rational requires one to agree with Shoggot's baseless assertions.
Reply #81 Top
Alex the "only theme" I use when I come here to wincusto is "Starbuck"
I never use anything else,
but ask the other ppl here they might have better suggestions, the theme is great just the white bg might drive them off of it.
Reply #82 Top
I think it is fairly safe to say that I was in the 'thick of it at Custo', and am fully conversant with what transpired.
For those of you that did not waste an entire working day [Friday, Australia time] contributing to the various threads as I did, I can precis it all for you.
Doing so will be some-what humiliating and embarrassing for some.

How it happened.....

Treetog, Alexandrie and Nuvem jointly created a new suite of skins which, as would be expected, they uploaded to all of the skinning sites...[as you do].

All these sites accepted these uploads [as they would], except for the intervention of a junior admin at Customize.org, whose personal moral/political stance saw simple uploaded screenshots as 'advertising', since some of the application skins in the suite would require payment.....so he deleted the screenshots.
The belief was that 'all skins must be free'...Custo is a 'free site'.

With me so far?
Good.

Now, a 'minor' problem arose in this junior admin's methods of removal, with his public declaration of his actions.
Rather than saying "Unfortunately, 'our' policy here at Customize.org is not to accept submissions promoting/advertising skin commercialism, and some of the Pixtudio submissions have therefore been rejected.", his response instead was simply insulting and disrespectful of a fellow person/skinner/site user.
Had he shown a degree of professionalism and tact, it ALL would have ended there, save for a lively debate on the future of commercial skinning.
None of what subsequently transpired would have ensued.

Still with me?
Hope so.

Now, as was reasonable to expect, those who personally were insulted requested their work to be removed entirely from Customize.org because obviously the management of the site had demonstrated a failing in common decency towards its users and any on-going relationship was untenable.

I, the arrogant self-righteous meddler that I am, took exception to this poor treatment of fellow skinners and [stupidly] thought I could at least extract an apology from the admin in question, not so much for his stance, but just his public insult.
I failed.

I subsequently requested all my work be removed from the site too, as I, too, could no longer accept the site's choice of management and public behaviour.
Quite a number of other skinners/themers requested their works be removed as well, citing similar opinion.

I'm assuming you're all still with me...

Now it gets weird.
Shoggot enters the fray, initially supporting a fellow admin's actions.
Then he amends that when he discovers that the screenshots were simply screenshots in the screenshots section, and not 'empty skin zips'.
Then he amends that yet again by stating in a new thread that he is 100% behind the admin's actions, because this admin obviously has the strength of his own resolve and is standing firm at whatever cost.
More people are incensed with this [to them] indefensible slight on respected skinning artists and voices are raised.
Shoggot blots his copy-book by accusing people such as myself as only being pissed-off about it all because those affected/insulted were 'fellow Wincusto admins'.
[Sorry to disappoint you, Shog, but had it been a submission of yours treated in the same manner I would have acted exactly the same].
Now, cleverly, Shoggot has converted an argument/complaint about abusive conduct by a site admin into a 'Stardock is evil' war, one of his pet subjects.

Now, if you guys are still with me....you are better than I am, because now this has all lost the plot, logic has taken a holiday, sanity is getting pissed at a Christmas Office party somewhere.

Anyway....perhaps a short history lesson is in order for those readers out there amazed/horrified/ disgusted with the social in-fighting prevalent in our 'community' of skinners......

In the beginning there was Customize.org...the 'only' skin site. It could do as it wished as there was no competition. Bickering, inane comments were rife.
Up popped skinz.org.... many people 'jumped ship', and a 'better, more stable, more respectful' community site was formed.
An important personage at skinz, very much a 'guiding light', particularly with the new wonderous concept of 'Wallpaper moderation' that kept the focus of the site firmly on the skins, was Shoggot.
All was good in the world.
Skinning prospered and flourished.....lots of petty bickering, but all pretty darn healthy just the same.
Then eFront [the site 'owners'] decided that extortion, rape and theft, was a 'great way to live' and skinz.org died.
In the meantime, many other sites were spawned from the successes of skinz.org and the 'community' became quite a bit more fragmented, as each site attracted people for differing reasons.

Many sites came and went and came again.
Even skinz.org returned, things were looking 'up'.
But all was not as it was back in '99.
Now, the new skinz is just another site, enjoying nostalgic returns, just as Customize did when it arose again.

Now, I'm only speculating here, but I'm guessing that there are now various 'high-profile' people in this skinning 'community' who no longer find themselves quite in the same 'pivotal' role as they once were, and this rankles, hence current dissent.

Now, if you have followed all this, try and explain to me exactly how one person in authority can abuse his position [without even first verifying that he does indeed HAVE the authority] by publicly insulting other members of 'his' community.

I would have had no issue with a privately communicated insult, but public defamation is wrong. Supporting his convictions is fair and reasonable. Supporting this actions is wrong.


I think that about covers it.
If and when sites such as Customize.org remember to respect the providers of their content, ie. the skinners, I, personally may return.
But not until they afford me and my fellow skinners with the respect of common decency that I once held for them.


Reply #83 Top
PS....sorry it was a long 'precis'....blame the stability of XP....I no longer crash half way through a post...
Reply #84 Top
Wow Jafo. That really does clear things up. I am a relative newcomer to this whole skinning thing and Shoggot's behavior was puzzling until your post. Puzzling because he behaved as one who expects his words to be treated as law and that when others disagreed with him he kept getting more and more desperate to find something to woo the masses to his agenda.

What if the king returned and nobody cared? Ego. You males are so driven by it sometimes.
Reply #85 Top
"public defamation is wrong"
Yes, Jafo your are 100% right
Reply #86 Top
Holy Smokes Jafo. That was one long entry, but very well written. I had sorta gleamed the gist of that custo thread in a half hour "skim" through it, but that nicely fleshes out the details.
As I mentioned above, a few have really shown their true colors\nature, and the only one it refects on is themselves.

sad...
Reply #88 Top
Jafo put it pretty much how I would put it. Why Shoggot tried to turn it into a "Bash Stardock" discussion is beyond me. I don't think he was prepared for the underlying backlash as a result. I think a lot of people have gotten fed up with "let's bash commercial software companies" that it's lost its bite.

Like Jafo said, if the jr. admin had just said "Sorry, I overreacted, here's why I felt that way.." it would have ended right there. My defense of Pixtudio was based purely on principle. They're my friends and they're doing things that help everyone.
Reply #89 Top
I tried to give some input at the boards on Custo and was told to "shut the fu-k up and go away". This was by an admin of the site who justified it by stating that he could use whatever language he wanted, that it was part of that sites personality. What a crock of an excuse. Absolutely no idea of professional behavior over there. Actually, I didn't expect professional behavior from the admins, just some good old common-sense like "people skills". I'm glad to be involved in this site.
Reply #90 Top
That is exactly what my point was when I posted there. http://www.customize.org/forum/984 It's just not my scene there. Either the admins actually are children, or they behave as if they are. Either way, I'm out. Pretty damn sad considering the legacy of Custo.
Reply #91 Top
I remember a time, at skinz, where some guy said, "ChinaCat is Fat" (just cause it rhymed, Not that im actually fat =p) Shog was the first to step in and beat up/ban the guy for being rude.

I have no idea who this "new" shog is..I want the old one back

Reply #92 Top
Maybe if you spend too much time in front of a computer the whirring, buzzing noise and radiation from the screen eventually distorts your brain in such a way that reason morphs into ego and aggression...

Whatever it is, I have a headache...

It's sad to me that something I have enjoyed so much now feels like a disputed territory claimed by rival camps. I'm gonna try to forget this whole thing and not give it more importance than it deserves.

But I won't be visiting custo anymore...
Reply #93 Top
Theres 3 possible versions of Jafo's "summary" - this version, the "free beer" version, and the nuetral version. I have yet to see the "free beer" or the nuetral version, but I have seen two instances of this version. Doesn't that tell you something?

As has been said about Shoggot - I want the old Jafo back.....

In fact, for Jafo, read "all the old skinz members who I hold in high esteem"....
Reply #94 Top
Integer, please explain where I am wrong.
As an eye-witness to the events as they unfolded, and before history had a chance to be rewritten via the gift of the delete button, I submit my account is accurate....
Reply #95 Top
To prove I am the 'same' Jafo ....it's 'neutral'....Spell checker
Reply #96 Top
I'm not saying you're wrong Jafo, just that it could be interpreted in other ways, with a different bias. Anyone could have summarised these events with a favourable slant in their own direction.
Anyhow, the matter seems to have been dropped, except here.....

Re. neutral, Damn, I noticed that was wrong as soon as I posted - stupid me for thinking it might go un-noticed
Reply #97 Top
Nope, I've thought about summarising this with a different 'slant', but every way I try necessitates a changing of the facts, which were self-evident....

Three men are on a train which crosses over into Scotland. Out the window they see a black sheep in a field.
The first man says..."Hey, all of the sheep in Scotland are black".
The second man says..."No, at least ONE of the sheep in Scotland is black".
The third man smiles...."No, all we can say is that at least one of the sheep in Scotland is black on at least one of its sides"...

Same observation, different 'degree' of accuracy.

I'm a 'Jafo'.....I often 'observe'. I can be biased and prejudiced, but I'm not blind....
Reply #98 Top
The first man disembarks the train at the next stop and castegates everyone in Scotland for having black sheep. He then gets on the next return train home and tells everyone from his homeland that (gasp )Scotland have black sheep, which prompts them all to take a train to Scotland to tell the Scots that they shouldn't have black sheep, because they are different to their own. All hell breaks loose......First man returns home and tells all his friends how nasty and bad the Scots are. Civil War breaks out, and the nation is slpit in two.....


Shame on us all for getting involved.
Reply #99 Top
See, this is why you shouldn't have black sheep.
Reply #100 Top
So, what's the paralel here? Scotland is Wincusto and the black sheep is commercial applications?