Men and their interpretation of breasts...

Geeze...

from JoeUser Forums
For some reason, a male fetish seems to be big breasts. You see these big-busted women on calendars and guys can sit for hours and stare at them and drool. Why? What is so attractive about women with big boobs? It is another stupid, unrealistic goal that drives young women crazy… It makes them/me think that I have to be big busted to be attractive to the male eye.

I am not big. I have no cleavage at all. But, some of my female classmates have boobs the size of their heads and men seem to find that extremely attractive. It is an extreme let-down… because there is no way I can change my body figure to fit that criteria(without plastic surgery). Actually… I don’t want to change my chest… because I want to find a man who will love me without big boobs.

Why are men attracted to big breasts? Why is it so appealing? I want men to answer this sincerely… because it is driving me nuts, I want to know! (I know not all men are obsessed with the big busts, I just want to know why there are some men who are).

~Sam
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Reply #1 from JoeUser Forums Top
Men like all breasts. Don't worry so much about it. Small-chested chicks can wear things that busty girls can't. You can pull off spaghetti straps and tank tops and tube tops and you can actually go around without a bra. Enjoy it!
Reply #2 from JoeUser Forums Top
I'm a male, and I find big breasts attractive, I'll admit it. As for why, I havn't been able to figure that one out yet. On the other hand the woman I love has small breasts, and I wouldn't want her (or her breasts) to be any different. Listen to Texas Wahine, she has good advice
Galactic Civilizations IV
Reply #3 from JoeUser Forums Top
Honestly, I don't think big breasts are attractive at all. The only thing they offer is a better chance of getting in the way. Everytime I hear guys talking about the big one's I just think to myself, "Do they only like them big because they don't know they come in other sizes?"

Don't be down on youself (or anyone else who is feeling like that *cough* Sarah *cough*). Just because you can see your fit too doesn't make you less attractive.

Capt. over and out!
Reply #4 from JoeUser Forums Top
I always went out with small to almost medium sized women then married D's. What was I thinking? They are all nice.
P.S. You don't need to delete this one.
Reply #5 from JoeUser Forums Top
Hey, I feel unattractive because I think I need to lose weight. It doesn't matter what you look like, society will probably find fault with something. Being comfortable with yourself is the most important thing.
Reply #6 from JoeUser Forums Top
Thank you brandon. Sam, i know how you feel, hello at least you can't see your feet!
Reply #7 from JoeUser Forums Top
The only thing they offer is a better chance of getting in the way.


Virgin.
Reply #8 from JoeUser Forums Top
Sam, you are beautiful. Never let anyone say otherwise.

Myself, I don't think large breasts are attractive. Everyone is going to have their own opinion, and some guys just like larger breasts.

Love ya!

Alex
Reply #9 from JoeUser Forums Top
This is a subject that I have always wondered about.... I like to look at big tits while they are in their bra/swimsuite or the cleavage showing in a shirt but, when nude many time big tits just don't look right. Don't tell my wife but, I like small Tits ,say an A or B cup. I have even dated a girl that had to wear a pushup bra and pray that her nipples didn't pop out to make it look like she had tits at all. In the nude though she was Smokin' Hot!

Here's a few verses of a song By David Alan Coe About Itty bitty titties:

We was swappin stories with a bunch of the guys, some were the truth and some were lies. We were talking bout all them girls we known and how they love them big titties so.

Well they looked at me and said well how bout you? I said boys them itty bitty titties will do, well they were laughing at me and calling me weird and I said boys, let me tell you bout them itty bitty titties.

Well it seems all the boys that were doin the laughin learned about their titties in National Geographic, learned about mine in a Girl Scout tent, let me tell you how my education went.


When she opened her blouse well I stared at aw cause I was in love with what I saw and though them titties may have lacked in size them titties were alive and right in front of my eyes.

Yeah itty bitty titties
Itty bitty titties
Itty bitty titties
Itty bitty titties
I love itty bitty titties

Well I still remember all the fun I had, that Girl Scout shoulda won a merit badge, I swore when I got back to the city I was gonna get some more of them itty bitty titties.

Now itty bitty titties fit right in your mouth, you don't have to worry bout the sides falling out they got itty bitty nipples just the size of nickels, itty bitty titties what I'm talking about.

Yeah itty bitty titties.
Itty bitty titties
Itty bitty titties
Itty bitty titties
I love itty bitty titties

Who else loves them itty bitty titties in here?

Now itty bitty titties don't need no brazier cause they stick straight out in the atmosphere and when you get old they won't fall of your chest itty bitty titties are the very best....

And now I don't give a damn about Mrs. Dolly give me itty bitty titties and I'll get my jollies they melt in your mouth they fit in your hand, itty bitty titties are the joy of the land.

I think Mr. Coe about covers it......
Reply #10 from JoeUser Forums Top
I'm fixing to go all Manya and write an informative article on the features and uses for big breasts . . . it's all well and good to love small chests, but there's no need to knock big chests . . .

Big breasts don't have to be unattractive in order for small breasts to be attractive. There are room for titties of all shapes and sizes in this great big world. Diversity is a beautiful thing.
Reply #11 from JoeUser Forums Top
Hey TW.

I have seen your mug and don't worry if we were single I would ask you out in a heart beat DD's and all! I Don't think it would take more than oh, 5 seconds for me to appreciate the uses for large breasts. In fact I can think of one right not that is not fit for this forum, but would be fun............

And your right all Tits are attractive ask any guy if they would like to see your tits and the answer will be Hell, Yes (unless they are gay). It don't matter who the woman is big tits, small tits even old, old tits. Don't try to say this isn't true guys, cause you know deep down it is!
Reply #12 from JoeUser Forums Top
" Virgin."

I think the right way to put this is too young to get married, too single to have sex...

Capt. over and out!
Reply #13 from JoeUser Forums Top
I think the right way to put this is too young to get married, too single to have sex...


He he he . . . well when you're old enough to be married enough to have sex, I think you'll change your mind about the "getting in the way" thing. Many fun uses for breasts, and large breasts are particularly versatile!
Reply #14 from JoeUser Forums Top
old breast? I'm not so sure that's exactly going to float my boat at this point in my life. The big boobs that come to my mind when I think of big boobs are disgusting. they have stretch marks from all the stress of the weight and they're so unsteady... i'm sorry but if the owner of the boobs can't even control them there's something not too calming about it to me.

Capt. over and out!
Reply #15 from JoeUser Forums Top
Capt, those fall under "crush you" category, I think.

I'm into big ones, truth be told. What can I say though, just the way I am. (Sparing the details for the people who know me well enough to think I'm a perverted freak).
Reply #16 from JoeUser Forums Top
Size doesn't matter in the breast category for me...as long as they're there and belong to a woman and aren't able to crush my skull....then I'm just cool with that. Small, medium, large.....extra-large....I like all sizes... Well....now it's time to step out of this awkward converstation....*shifts eyes...runs to door*

~Zoo
Reply #17 from JoeUser Forums Top
Basically it doesn't matter what size or shape a woman's breasts are, there'll be somebody (and probably a LOT of somebodies) who finds that particular type of breast attractive. Largeness lovers may be loud, but they are not necessarily a majority or even a plurality.
Reply #18 from JoeUser Forums Top
I think I read somewhere once where it could be an evolutionary thing: women with bigger breasts could provide better nourishment for their offspring, which led to healthier children, of which the females would have larger breasts and the males would be attracted to them (due to genes). And then of course due to natural selection, these genetic lines would eventually replace all the other lines.

If I remember correctly, of course.
Reply #19 from JoeUser Forums Top
I think I read somewhere once where it could be an evolutionary thing: women with bigger breasts could provide better nourishment for their offspring


Breast size has absolutely no bearing on breastfeeding. At all. Period.
Reply #20 from JoeUser Forums Top



Gimp is so hard to use.
Reply #21 from JoeUser Forums Top
The reason? 2 of them.

First, jealousy. Men dont have them.

SEcond, form factor. Women are curves and silk. Men are straight lines and sand paper. So the more curves on a women, they perception is the prettier.
Reply #22 from JoeUser Forums Top
I really wouldn't consider mine big. So don't worry Sam. You're not the only one out there!!

~carebear~
Reply #23 from JoeUser Forums Top
Basically it doesn't matter what size or shape a woman's breasts are, there'll be somebody (and probably a LOT of somebodies) who finds that particular type of breast attractive. Largeness lovers may be loud, but they are not necessarily a majority or even a plurality.


Indeed. Sure the media might say otherwise, but it's the same media that insists that women who are larger than Kate Moss are ugly and will never find love, and supposedly, some of them have!
Reply #24 from JoeUser Forums Top
Breasts are a buttocks surrogate. Um, are we allowing evolutionary talk on here? I wonder at times...

Male monkey is attracted to the buttocks of female money becuase they denote when she's in heat. Nowadays we mate for pleasure (not personally but I believe it's quite popular) and the triggers are messed up. Swollen buttocks = ready to mate, so big boobs are attractive. Plus there's massages and TTfx.
Reply #25 from JoeUser Forums Top
I've been intimate with women of all shapes and sizes over the years. The breast novelty is something I think most men really grow out of once they get past mid-20's and start realising there is more to attraction than just tits. Aside from the physical, I am attracted to women who can laugh at themselves, who can make me laugh, who are intelligent and confident and who know how to look after themselves.

Having said that, Frightlever might be on to something. A number of men I know who are attracted to large breasted women could well be missing links in the evolutionary ladder