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Men and their interpretation of breasts...

Men and their interpretation of breasts...

Geeze...

For some reason, a male fetish seems to be big breasts. You see these big-busted women on calendars and guys can sit for hours and stare at them and drool. Why? What is so attractive about women with big boobs? It is another stupid, unrealistic goal that drives young women crazy… It makes them/me think that I have to be big busted to be attractive to the male eye.

I am not big. I have no cleavage at all. But, some of my female classmates have boobs the size of their heads and men seem to find that extremely attractive. It is an extreme let-down… because there is no way I can change my body figure to fit that criteria(without plastic surgery). Actually… I don’t want to change my chest… because I want to find a man who will love me without big boobs.

Why are men attracted to big breasts? Why is it so appealing? I want men to answer this sincerely… because it is driving me nuts, I want to know! (I know not all men are obsessed with the big busts, I just want to know why there are some men who are).

~Sam
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Reply #26 Top
I (as a young male) am not really attracted to women with large breast. Actually , if the woman is beautiful inside and out, it doesn't matter what tit size they have. Their personality is what makes them attractive. I think of the woman that I would hope to marry ,and all I ask for is someone who can have fun and be able to hold and intelligent conversation without worring about every little problem they have. Someone who can learn to live with their flaws (if they have any to begin with) and move on from there. My ex-girlfriend had a small chest, but I loved her and was attracted to her because she was warm and caring. I broke up with her because she turned into a psycho. So anyway, I'm not really sure what the fascination is with "big "o tities" but I know that it's kind of annoying when I'm hanging out with some of my friends, and all they think about is that. Hell, and can't watch a movie without trying to find the nudie seens. It get's really old sometimes.
Reply #27 Top
I broke up with her because she turned into a psycho.



Should have kept her. They all turn into Psycos at some point.
Reply #28 Top
Your right. But in this case I'll give a few examples. In the beginning we talked all the time. Maybe spending at least four to five hours everytime we talked. Which is usually normal if you meet someone new and you have a lot in common. Everything was fine for the first few months. Then, she would get into this habit of calling at 3 or 4 in the morning to see what I was doing. (Usually I would put a smart-ass comment but insert yours here). She would get mad and think that I didn't want to talk to her because I'd rather do important things like (oh jeez, I don't know) like sleep at 4 in the morning. Let me say that the shit got old really quick and I broke up with her. Determined to have the last word, she called me a week later saying stuff like "I'm moving cause the people here suck and I'm going to live with my family" blah...blah...blah... So I told her "great and I hope you have fun". She didn't like the way I said that eventhough I said it in the most polite way I could, then, she hung up the phone on me. And I haven't talked to her in about a year & 1/2 (thank god!!!!).
Reply #29 Top
Then, she would get into this habit of calling at 3 or 4 in the morning to see what I was doing.


Ok you got me there, But I think I would call that possessive or obsessive. She probably wasn't as much into talking as making sure you were where you were supposed to be......
Reply #30 Top
i'v often wondered this myself and the other day tried asking a load of guys what they thought, with little sucess (poss cos one of them was my boyfried and i am slightly lacking the breast department and he didnt want to offend me, who knows?) basicaly i got that its because we have them, and they dont. But surley that would mean that women would be able to look at a picture of a penis for hours on end, i dont know about you but that wouldnt really do much for me. In summary, i think its just one of the great mysteries of the world and is best if it stays that way.
FairyT xx

Reply #31 Top

Breast size has absolutely no bearing on breastfeeding. At all. Period.

Right...Unfortunately, the myth that it does is one many DOCTORS still hold to (like the one who tried to have us investigated for neglect because my wife was still nursing our 4th child at 16 months of age at bedtimes and naptimes).

Reply #33 Top
I was wondering the boobs will become wrinkled and sagging one day. How to make sure the shape is still preserved? Any idea?