I'm too narcissistic

to blog elsewhere

I have a confession to make. I don't relish doing this, but I must be honest.

I am narcissistic.

Did you catch that? Yes, it is true. I am narcissistic. Hopefully not to a terrible degree, but I have realized that I do like who I am and my writing, and won't complain about a little attention now and then.

What brought me to this epiphany? Good question. Well, the category is blogging, so it has to do with that. I have, on occasion, seen folks recommend other blog sites than JU. Being the semi-open minded person I am I have gone and tried said services. Blogspot, Modblog, MSN Spaces, tried them all. Not bad, really. Lots of nice customization features available at 'em even (especially Modblog and Blogspot).

But they just aren't for me. I am happy blogging away here at good ol' JU. Ups and downs are the part of any community, and I just can't help but feel a sense of community here that I missed at the other sites. Sure, there are some top articles, top bloggers and such listed. But it just didn't seem as easy to find new people. And there are ways to get more traffic to your blog (Blog Explosion for example). I tried 'em. Too much work (oh, did I mention I am lazy as well as narcissistic?). I have to go and browse through page after page of blogs to earn a view or two. I will stick with my favorites here and the new faces that find me via article syndication, the forums, and being on other people's favorites list.

I'm not really gunning for the points, but I enjoy the interaction. Topics end up being discussed at greater length, acquaintances are made and e-friendships have even formed for me here. I like that. I just haven't gotten that at other blog sites. So here I will stay. And here I will offer a thank you to everyone who has/does read my articles, and a double thanks to those who contribute. As much as I like writing, you are all the reason I keep at it. I tip my hat to you all.
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Reply #1 Top
I've tried the other ways to get traffic at first but gave up when I saw the complicated html stuff involved. I just want to write.

The interaction here is a bonus. It's hard to get noticed at Blogger unless you're already notorious for something (Jayson Blair comes to mind. His blog is a doozy.)
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I hear you. And I enjoy your writing (even if I don't comment - too often I am unfamiliar with the song), so keep it up dangit!
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I tried Blogspot previously but wasn't happy with it. Once I found JU I forgot about looking at any other sites. JU suits me and my various purposes. It has also provided a sense of community I've not experienced before online.
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It has also provided a sense of community I've not experienced before online.


Glad to hear that, especially considering the article that "introduced" us. I never really contemplated leaving here once I was settled, but figured I would test other waters. They just weren't for me. Too many cuates here (Guatemalan slang for good friend).
Reply #5 Top
I have a blog on blogger.com but that's only 'cause it's where me and my Oxford pals get together to chat. Plus it takes me so dang long to make friends that I don't want to go through that again. And I kinda like many of the people I've met here and have a hunch that if I were to move my blog there, they wouldn't follow.

-A.
Reply #6 Top
As a relative newbie (long time reader, first time blogger), I hope that my enthusiasm will stay steady.
Besides, why start several threads on different sites? Path of least resistance, my man...
(BTW, nice to e-meet you too, Bro. Dev - look forward to reading more of your stuff.)
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I thought modblog looked nice. But I think the interaction here is better. And I don't see a point in putting things online if nobody at all is going to see it.
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I've got a couple of other blogs at other places in varying stages of decay. Joeuser is the best for me, because of all the great people I've met.