Family...Once a year

Family...

We see them once a year or so on my man's side, usually in Oklahoma. I'm reminded why I like alcohol. Ha.

They are wonderful, and overwhelming, and selfish, and generous, and self-centered, and focused only on others needs, and everything I am and love to be and hate to be.

Here it is in my face....

They're blunt. They don't hide their flaws.

Neither do I, at this point.

Well, I try. I'm the daughter in law, I have to....sometimes...and so do they.

So here we are....and then there's the silence...cause, see I haven't popped out any kids yet, and they seem to be the focal point of entertainment during those deadly silences that make everything seem more comfortable.

Let's break out the alcohol!
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Alcohol, the problem solver
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Oh lizard it sounds like you need to find a rock to crawl under for awhile. We missed you yesterday at Grandma's, all the cousins say "Hi." They all were there this year. Hang in there---you will be home in a few days. Go bask in the sun, find some good insects to munch on, and maybe things will look brighter!

Mom

























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I feel your pain I am closer to my ex husbands family though and invited to their house for Christmas what do I do hurt the mother I have know for over 20 years and sis thats my best friend for 20 years and not go or drink a lot and go...I drank a lot and went it still was terrigbky uncomfortable(
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Sorry..I miss you. If you were here, it wouldn't be uncomfortable...but we'd still bust out the alcohol. See you soon. Love, Rat.