Guys are assholes. Well, some are.

January 24th, 1250 am.

So, my friend Jim leaves me all these messages today: cell phone, IM, email, home phone, etc... When I get home around midnight, I called him. He proceeds to tell me something I hope to never hear from one of my friends again. He starts telling me how he worked out today, went back to his dorm room with TWO girls, then went to his bed. Then took clothes off. THEN he added some more. I have never been more disgusted with anyone.

I am not the kind of guy that would enjoy a threesome. I'm perfectly fine with just one girl. I can't think about whats going through his mind as he 'enjoyed' this Hedonistic pleasure. I'd hate myself if I ever did this. I guess you could say to each his own... It just bugs me that he'd want to call and give me all these details, even after I told him to SPARE details, and how I didn't really want to know about it anyways. Then he calls me a downer, and hangs up.

Yeah.

Today I went snowboarding on Old Mission penninsula behind a snowmoblie. We made some jumps and then proceeded to use them. I think Amanda has a concussion. She took a few pretty hard falls. Other than that, it was fun. After bombing the hills, we ate, then proceeded to the hot tub. I have to say, I like that a girl takes the time every year to get a new swim suit. She really looks good in it. I mean, she looks good in the others too, but theres something about this one in particular. Mainly, I think that its because I was there when she bought it. We were walking through the mall one day a few weeks ago, and she saw it, then yelled "THATS PERFECT!!!" and so we went in for her to try it on, and buy it. Of course she wouldnt let me watch her try it on, or let me see her in it while trying it on, so tonight was the first time. It fits her beautifully.

BUT... none of you want to hear that.

Tomorrow, I'm hanging out with Amanda again. Shes calling me after she gets out of work. We are going to Glen Art Studios in Suttons Bay and she's getting a tattoo. I'm there as a pain buddy. I don't think it will hurt her, but she seems to think it might. I told her mine didnt hurt a bit, btu she doesnt believe me, so yeah. I'm going. She's getting a calla lily with a ribbon around it. Its really a good design, she drew it herself. But none of you want to know that either.

So I've been getting some advice on here lately. Most of it was to either be patient, or to sneak a kiss and see how it goes. I'm still debating on what to do as of yet. Tomorrow just brings me one more day closer to finding out. I'm concerned though. In an email from my Ex- to Amanda (since there friends, they DO talk to each other) Anne told her to "Take Joe Amanda. Follow your heart." Funny thing to write. That was all she wrote, and it ended up getting sent to everyone on Annes email list. Yes, ther was more about other things in both of their lives, but that one separate paragraph stuck out. So theres one more aspect for me to consider. It could be a good thing for my team, but it could mean something that I didnt think about. More on that later.

Are there any forum sections on here about cars? I'm looking for some people to talk to about the new designs on a few of the new cars coming out. Any help would be appreciated. I haven't the slightest on where to look.

Peace out.
--Joe
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Reply #1 Top
Jim is indeed an asshole--not for his hedonism--but for his bragging about it and probably points out the girls to all his friends. Sad.
Reply #2 Top
Thank you. Another true gentleman in this world.

And yes, he will point out the girls. He's done it with all the others. I'll say, I don't agree with the actions, but they're livable, I just can't stand him being a braggart about it and blatantly flaunting it. People shouldn't 'kiss and tell'. This is his away message right now: "My goal has come true... I got with TWO chicks." I'd say thats flaunting it.

--Joe
Reply #3 Top
Geez every one around here has girl issues. even me. damn my goal is to have one but liek 10 follow me around and im not kidding. If this guy likes girls so much he needs moren one he can have a few of the ones that wont leave me alone. But not the one im in love with. rar shes mine oh and you red im a car guy i build um up. ive had atleast one of every car ive ever wanted. We need a good car forum
Mr papi (duh)
Reply #4 Top
You know, I agree. I think I should start posting about cars, and just see what develops. Most guys in this world are interested in them, so I know someone will reply to the articles.

But what Channel should it be under?
--Joe
Reply #5 Top
List it under misc if nothing else, and people will respond to it as long as the title of the article says something about the cars. If it's big enough JoeUser might add a category.

~Dan
Reply #6 Top
:: grins a bit:: So now the opposite gender is starting to figure out what we already knew? Amen.
You're correct in saying "some" . Others, like yourself, still know how to treat a lady.
Your gal pal Amanda sounds like fun. I wonder if she realizes just how special you are?

About Jim. Someday, his little stunts will come back and bite him in the butt.
Either in a string of really bad luck, or lack of dates.
And when he asks you why...or is bemoaning his new fate. You can grin at him as you say he did it to himself.

Enjoy your day with your lady friend!
Ali
The Misfit Chick
Reply #7 Top
I don't understand how having an encounter with two women makes him less of a gentleman. It's apparent that they enjoyed it as much as he didn, where's the wrong?
Reply #8 Top
JeremyG-

It's not that the actual actions made him less of a gentleman, its that he goes around afterwards telling people about it. That wouldn't be something that a nice guy would do.

It doesn't matter if they all enjoyed it or not, I actually hope they did. All I'm saying is that after such an occurrence, he shouldn't be going around telling everyone every detail of it.

As for Amanda, I'm on my way out the door right now to go get her. :)

Cars: I'll prolly post on it tonight or tomorrow sometime. I really want the opportunity to get some peoples feedback on a few things.

I'm out.
--Joe
Reply #9 Top
We all brag about something at certain times in our life. However, Jim using discreet undertones would have been perhaps more subtle and tactful. I mean a few words says all you want to know anyways. "Dude, I worked out today and then slept with two fine ass bitches!" We have all bragged about a girl, a car, stereo system, computer, etc. This just shows a lack of will to not be content in silence with his enjoyment. He was obviously very happy and proud of his accomplishment ~chuckles~, but he shouldn't force it on anyone that doesn't want to hear the gory details ~laughs~.
Reply #10 Top
WTF?! you wouldn't like a threesome. I bet you don't like football and beer either. Anyways you should let her know what you feel and think and be straight with it, I mean why would you want to play head games who likes that.
Reply #11 Top
ACTUALLY..... I DO like football, and I DO like beer. So there.

I'm just not into all the strange sex crap. I think that it's best when between TWO people, one male, and one female. But thats just me. Each to their own, I guess.
Reply #12 Top
Two chicks? Thats awesome.

were they hot? ;)
Reply #13 Top
I have no problems with threesomes, actually im still waiting for the right opportunity to come by. as for your friend., yeah he is a jerk. that is the type of guy me and my friends would likely break our hands with. I mean he treats women as trophies and for me thats the lowest a person could go. That guy would probably have a hard time getting dates when word comes out about the things he does and say.

Anyway threesomes... i guess it would be hard to give pleasuret to two women at the same time . the only downside i see is how to give both women pleasure. it would be just like a very hard Juggling act.

Wow you have a cool Ex dude, couldnt imagine one of my ex's saying that.