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Am I still a Virgin?

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Am I still a Virgin?

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Ok I just was thinking about something and needed to share.

This morning on one of the radio programs they were talking about when people lost their virginity, their stories and what they got upto when it happened.

Now seeing that I am Gay I was going to ring in and tell them that I was still a virgin. A virgin at 32. I can imagine them asking me all the questions. But seriously I have never had sex with a woman before. Never. I really wouldn't even know apart from the odd picture Ive seen what it looks like down there or even feels like for that matter.

So does that make me still a virgin? Am I missing out on something? Why am I even thinking this way?

Well obviously I have had sex, but it has only been with another man. Im not decrying it because I really love having sex with men, there is nothing I could think of that is more erotic and passionate. ( I know I must be grossing out the straight male in here) but seriously there has to be some point where either sex thinks about what it would be like to have sex with the same sex or even experimented. Now that would be a brave ask to have people on here divulge that sort of information and ten points if you do, but hey Im now thinking that Im still a virgin of straight sex at 32.

I might be missing out on something. I dont know what? I really wouldnt even know what to do. I must admit I cringe at this point because I couldnt imagine myself doing it but, honestly I am now curious.

What does this all mean!?!?!
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Reply #26 from JoeUser Forums Top
Nay PB, I don't think you're a virgin...but then again, I've played *both sides* of the issue, so maybe I'm just a weird-o.

Reply #27 from JoeUser Forums Top
Why weirdo Myrrander? I think it's healthy to explore ..not for everyone but ..hey great to know that there are more people enjoying their sexuality ... what did you think about it??
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Reply #28 from JoeUser Forums Top
sorry chip! ... Hey Chip havent you ever thought about it??


Can't say that I've ever been curious. May have to do with me being completely girl crazy though...
Reply #29 from JoeUser Forums Top
May have to do with me being completely girl crazy though...


Girl crazy is good....
I guess Im boy crazy..

But Chip... put in a situation do you think you would? I dont expect you to answer this but wouldnt you just try it..even if you at the end of it thought yuk.. then you can know you tried it?? or does it make guys think they are less of a man by even going there? or admitting it??
Reply #30 from JoeUser Forums Top
Hey phoenixboi...

Interesting article...it kind of made me think of this poem by Allen Ginsberg called "This form of life needs sex". If you haven't read it, you might find it interesting, especially if you're worried you're "missing out on something". Ginsberg definately didn't think so!

On a more personal note, I remember when I was about 18 I was almost convinced I was a lesbian. I'd only kissed around 3 boys by then and every kiss was SO bad, it put me way off. One time I went out with a couple of girlfriends, and we got a little drunk and one of them just leaned over and kissed me. It was just incredibly tender and soft and nice- as opposed to having some slobbery teenage boy stick his tongue down my throat (or worse, the one that licked around my mouth like a puppy), that I figured since other girls liked kissing boys and i prefered this "girl kiss", that I had to be gay. The kiss didn;t really turn me on as such but when boys kissed me I felt absolutely nothing, and when she kissed me I felt something..How naive I was...Later on I actually went out with some guys who knew how to kiss, and figured I definately wasn't gay. But I did have a few months when I seriously questioned it. So I think I have an idea of where you're coming from..sometimes I think about how different things coulda been.

Personally, i don't think sexuality is something you have ANY control over, I don't think it's a rigid, definate thing, and I don't think it should be. It should be about just exploring, finding out what works for you. I say go with the flow, be safe, and enjoy.

Dyl xxx
Reply #31 from JoeUser Forums Top
put in a situation do you think you would?


I don't think I would. But, I think part of what factors into my surety is that I am completely in love with my wife. And while I can look around to appreciate beauty or a person's smile or a great personality, I'm not interested in anything outside of her.
Reply #32 from JoeUser Forums Top
I watched 4 episodes of 6 Feet Under and it depressed me!

So Phoenix, do you think you still a virgin?
Reply #33 from JoeUser Forums Top
Later on I actually went out with some guys who knew how to kiss, and figured I definately wasn't gay. But I did have a few months when I seriously questioned it. So I think I have an idea of where you're coming from..sometimes I think about how different things coulda been


Hey Dylan thanks for your honesty and openess on here!.. yeah well when i kissed girls I wasnt turned on or felt the same way as when I kiss guys, but it's a bit like the movie the Butterfly effect.. I dont really think about what could have been if I wasnt gay, just thinking that so far I am what Dharma says "a girly virgin". Will that be forever? I dunno.
Reply #34 from JoeUser Forums Top
while I can look around to appreciate beauty or a person's smile or a great personality, I'm not interested in anything outside of her.


I love the way you put that Chip! You sound very happy and very contented that is really great to see... someday I hope to be like you. Also nice to see that you still do appreciate other smiles and personalities. Thanks Mate.. you inspire me.
Reply #35 from JoeUser Forums Top
So Phoenix, do you think you still a virgin?


Hey Island! well yeah Im a girly virgin like Dharma says..
Reply #36 from JoeUser Forums Top
I told him that id be happy to, the moment he was willing to suck a dick for my viewing pleasure.


What a great comeback LW!
He just might some day...if for no other reason than to enjoy my discomfort when complying.


So if he asked you this time you would do it???
Reply #37 from JoeUser Forums Top
The alternative would most likely be far more unpleasant than the act itself, and oft repeated until my compliance was assured


what would you rather LW compliance or non compliance?
Reply #38 from JoeUser Forums Top
While id rather not comply with any carpet munching order, im certain it would be more pleasant than any punishment delivered for non compliance,


So personally how would it make you feel? even though you say you would be repulsed by it you would still do it?