Demigod MP is intrinsically unfriendly
There's no chat in there. You join games.. that's about it. I don't see any friends, clans, etc. This is multiplayer, so about the people, and letting them get together. There's no social utility to the current system. It feels very lonely to pop in and look for a game.. in GPGNet I often drop in for a chat. I find that I just don't want to play the game, because it feels like single player.