ok guys, my multiplayer is not working. Here is what happens:

I log on to the ironclad online multiplayer client thing. Then, i try to enter a game, and it says "your game data differs from the host's. ensure you and the host have the latest update." this is very frusterating, as it happens every single game that i try to join in on. I restarted my computer, and the sins of a solar empire client many times, and that didn't work. I also verified and tried to update the game many times on impulse, and that didn't do anything... And it also says Version 1.11 in the bottom right corner so i know i have it.....Nobody seems to know the problem, and it really sucks. Can somebody please help?