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Real Female Role Models

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A freid was telling me a story the other day about how he was standing out the front of a shopping centre smoking a cigarette, and this slightly overweight girl approaches him, and asks him if he wants to come to the movies, she is paying... Now my friend is not an asshole generaly, but what I am about to tell you will probably disgust you somewhat - I was shocked.

He goes into the movies with this chick, who he does not find attractive at all... she has obviously got him along to see a movie because she seeks acceptance and companionship... anyway... She start's undoing his zipper and performs felatio on him in the movie theatres... so my friend, he just sits there and 'cops it' so to speak. Their little encounter continues on to a meal, and then a bus journey... My friend finally figures out that he had best split, because he really isn't interested in getting to know this girl, and he needs to go into damage control... he ditches her, and I can only imagine how her feelings were hurt.

Why is it that woman feel so insecure about who they are, that they have to resort to approaching strangers, and giving them head half an hour after they meet? Obviously - this young lady wa sa special case, but it all leads back to the same fundamental problems - sex is given to much importance by a conceited society. Who do these young ladies look to for role models? Teenage slappers strutting about film studios recording raunchy video clips. Covers of magazines with woman who dont know what a square meal is, and their souls are usually as empty as their heads...

I was watching the Olympic opening ceremony, and I had a revelation... young girls have no further to look for inspiration from the beautiful female athletes of the Olympic games. The dedication and integrity required to reach the pinnacle level of athletics and sport is nothing short of admirable. These woman dont possess this drive and determination to impress anyone else - they want to be the best for thier own benefit.

As I was watching, i was absoluty flabbergasted at the plethora of stunning woman circling the stadium... these are the woman that should be donning the magazine covers, with stories how the practiced whatever their field of expertise was from dusk till dawn. They are no different from anyone else, other than a few genetic benefits, they are where they are today because of intense determination and passion to succeed.

Just quietly, I would not mind being in the Olympic village at the moment, surrounded by inspirational and beautiful people... I am not sure if i would socailise with the likes of Maurice Greene and his pig headed demeanor, but I guess thats the price of success... to be successful, you have to believe you are the best. Arrogance can be a common trait in athletes, but i would take a confident friend over an insecure one any day.

Young ladies of this world, I know some of you read this blog... I know us guys can make life tough for you sometimes... I admit, most of us are jerks, but generally, you have my respect... all I ask as a sincere and genuine male, is that you respect yourself. You dont need to suck a guys dick in a movie theatre, heck, you dont even need to wear short skirts... Just always ask the question... You aren't 'worth it' it because of a Loreal cosmetics campaign, you are 'worth it' because you are here. Show me what you are made of girls, I know you are special, you just have to believe it.

BAM!!!
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Reply #26 from JoeUser Forums Top
Sarah said, "Men who have a lot of sex, random or otherwise, are considered studs, and women who do the same are called sluts"

Don't you think this is changing now? I used to frequent a bride's forum where there were often raunchy threads about how many lovers they'd had, etc., and many were not shy about revealing their scores of lovers prior to their husbands (hopefully prior, that is). They, the women, berate virgins for waiting 'til their wedding night to have sex. They are the target Cosmo audience.

And on the other hand, in the college dorm, there were a few guys who were always there, different girl each time, whom we referred to as "Man-sluts." I still use that term for men I know who sleep around.

I'm not a better person for judging them. But I know I don't share the studs/sluts attitude and I never have, and there are more who share this. However, I'm not sure that viewing *both* sides as sluts is a great improvement....hooray for equality, but boo for prolific stupid sex.
Reply #27 from JoeUser Forums Top
Muggaz.... I've read the entire string on this one. WOW baby! Perception of one's self is nearly always askew from the truth. I have had some very emotionally trying times in my life and all of them were because of my misconception of myself, whether it was my body or my thought process. For instance, the guy in a night club wearing his best "leisure suit" and has taken a bath in his Hia-karate after shave, now he thinks he is the cats pajamas...but in reality, how many are sputtering their lager and giggling ? Well, to some, the fact that he is so comfortable about being comfortable is a big turn on. Who knows why this young woman did what she did. It could have been a cycle of destruction for her, brought on by a need to be accepted and desired, that is so strong that while she is getting the attention, nothing, not even the humiliation that she knows will follow seems worth it to her. "patience and tolerance". As for your friend, perhaps the ego boost he got from being approached like that, to be found desireable by a total stranger, led him on the same path of distruction. The human thought process is flawed in many ways and this just shows another example. BUT, maybe, just maybe it was very plainly a search for self gratification by BOTH parties? It IS possible that the girl wanted nothing more than an exciting evening with someone she found desireable.

Bam!!??? Umm..No...tee hee BADA BING BABY

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Reply #28 from JoeUser Forums Top
Wow.......that was amazing to read.....you certainly have your head screwed securely on your shoulders.
Now it's a funny thing, if I can remember back to when I went to school.......the girls that gave the boys what they wanted are ultimately rejected and dubbed 'sluts' or something similar and this early behaviour can lead to a continual battle for attention and companionship through the wrong avenues. The girls who don't succumb to this pressure are also given a name 'prude', 'frigid' etc, but may be more likely to actually have a 'boyfriend' rather than guys who want to fuck and leave. Well it is a really confusing matter for young girls to come to terms with and also boys .......are they heading for the 'stud' club or the 'virgin' tag.
Well, perhaps it comes down to parenting........but really it comes down to acceptance, something we all need....I guess.
Reply #29 from JoeUser Forums Top
Well, perhaps it comes down to parenting........but really it comes down to acceptance, something we all need....I guess.


Thanks for your comments guys.

It is all about acceptance, and self assuredness... sometimes people need to be told by someone else that they are ok, because for some reason or another, they have a mis-conception that self validation is not acceptable!

There is a great saying - you can't love anyone else until you love yourself... Self respect, for me, is the most important character trait anyone could possibly possess, and whether this particular lady did what she did for her own reasons, whatever, it is quite clear to me that she was lacking in self respect, and the same thing goes for my friend...

You cant be accepted by others unless you accept and respect who you are.

For instance, the guy in a night club wearing his best "leisure suit" and has taken a bath in his Hia-karate after shave, now he thinks he is the cats pajamas...but in reality, how many are sputtering their lager and giggling ?


Isn't that the truth!!! some people obviously make up for their insecurities in differnet ways... this girl, performs felation on some random, this guy, obviously spends his money on suits and aftershave to make up for a shallow personality... eitherway, they both desire acceptance...

BAM!!!
Reply #30 from JoeUser Forums Top
Muggaz,
Something I have realized over time is that most people think less of themselves than other people do as I did when I was younger. I assumed people thought this or that when I failed to recognise that they did not know me as I do and did not know all the faults I believed I had and more so they probably didn't care about my trivial grievances about myself. And you know what ....people don't really care what you're like as long as your a pretty decent person and the reason I know this is because I'm using my point of view.....if you don't hurt me personally I'm happy for you to be you whatever that may be, I don't want to stick you in a mold I've fashioned for you. Perhaps a lot of us need to be a little less self critical and not assume others are disecting and analysing our every move. A friend of mine once said 'Assume' and your making an 'Ass (of) u (and ) me'.