I'm not your bro and I am going to taze you!

Frogblog: January 2008

image The cliche "beauty in the eye of the beholder" is so overused but is so universal. A better phrase would be that value is in the eye of the beholder.

This past week, Apple updated the iPhone and the iPod Touch. Apple is charging existing users $19.95 to get some of the new features. Thus ensued a lot of bitching and moaning about the price. 

Maybe it's because I'm a sick, scummy, evil capitalist who eats babies when I'm not on here flaming web hippies but what is it with non-producers constantly asserting that other people are greedy for not working for them for free.  When I bought my iPod Touch (best purchase of 2007) I knew it didn't have email or map features. The Apple is letting me have these cool and extremely useful features for 20 bucks is great.   (here's my quick review of it)

So what if new users don't have to pay the $20. They had to wait longer. If the iPod Touch were a video game, it would be priced at half the price it launched at by now. You don't hear people screaming that they had to pay $50 for their favorite game a year ago and now it's available for $30 at Best Buy do you? 

That's one of my biggest peeves with the Internet. We now have an entire generation of web hippies that not only expect other people to work for them to be free but have the audacity to accuse those producing stuff of greed if they refuse to behave like proper slaves. 

In an age where there are fewer and fewer people making stuff (skins, software, you name it) it strikes me as extremely ironic that anyone who doesn't make stuff thinks they're in any position to be demanding others work for free for them. 

I can't make an email applet for my iPod. I'm glad Apple did. And I will happily trade $20 that I earned through my labor to those who produced it.  When I can't produce something for myself, I don't mind paying those who can produce a thing I want if it's of value to me. If it's not worth it, I don't purchase it.


Aero Executive

I see the same thing with skins too. Someone makes a cool skin and you inevitably have some people come out and crap on it. Last week on our tech partner site, Neowin, a user posted about Aero Executive (a new theme).  Within minutes, users came on and started crapping on it. Now, a wood-textured version of Aero may not be for you but it's a good skin from a design perspective.  But in the age of entitlement, the people who don't actually produce anything not only expect an unlimited right to insult those who do make stuff but become incredulous if called out for their criticism (i.e. they recognize their right to free speech but become amazingly intolerant of the right of others to defend themselves). It got so bad I had to close the thread.

So here's the deal: If you produce stuff then good for you.  If you don't produce stuff, then you are either reliant on the good will of others to produce things for you or you will have to pay evil capitalists to labor on your behalf to produce the product, good, or service you want.  And while you are free to criticize what others produce, so too are other people free to criticize you in return since, after all, criticism is a form of product too. :)

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I feel the need to respond to the comments above regarding the caustic comments made by some about the work submitted and avalable trhough this site, and others like it. I could not agree more that this is getting worse. It is true that many people produce the work because they enjoy doing so, but the motivation to share it will be eroded with unwarranted crticism. I have only recently started to work with graphics programs, motivated to try my hand at it after years of using Stardock products and downloading material from this site. I understand how difficult and time consuming this process can be. If I see something posted here that I don't rally like, I simply don't download it. There is no need to make negative comments and I am not skilled enough to make constructive criticism.

I once saw an interview with author Alice Walker, in which she said "You can't make more of yourself by making less of others". Its a good thing to keep in mind.

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Amen Frogboy
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Someone I know had commented a while ago that everything in digital data format should be ad supported. The sense of entitlement varies by what people actually do for a living.
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Someone I know had commented a while ago that everything in digital data format should be ad supported. The sense of entitlement varies by what people actually do for a living.
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And what's really ironic is that those people probably hate "the big corporations".  Only huge corporations could survive advertising revenue. 

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Very well said. :D

I would also pay $20 for the additional features. The map and email features probably took a little work to get them perfected for such a wide audience. Though they may seem quite simple, they are NICE features! Especially the map part...

I don't own an iPhone, but I own a small word-of-mouth computer repair business, and without Google Maps, I would be screwed. It would be nice, if I did have an iPhone, to be able to use it as a GPS. But, I got a GPS for Christmas, so I'm happy now anyway.

But to the point, I agree. If there's software out there that I need and I can't find it, sometimes I attempt to make it. Or if I don't really feel like buying someone else's software, I'll try to whip it up real quick.

As with the Aero Executive, I think it's AWESOME! I honestly don't see it to fit my tastes for skins, as I don't really care for red skins in the first place... it's still a work of art, and a very beautiful work of art compared to many other WB skins that fail to meet any design standards... I'm already sure there are LOTS of people that are praising the work every time they see it on their desktop.

If I get an idea for a skin I would like to see on my desktop... I'll just whip out Photoshop CS3 and get started!

But yes, very well said, I agree completely to your statements. ^^
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They hate the big corporations even while working for those big corporations. They don't realize that unlike the government, these big corporations cannot just print money to pay them.

There is no place for an ad in a completely "free" world.
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Good show, Frogboy!

Personally, referring to that other site, I do not put much stock in an argument on taste by a person called "bubba"(something or other) ranting on how "bulky" (wtf???) Aero Exec. is compared to the MS Vista version! I was also confused by all of the "glass" to which Bubba continually referred.?.?

In any case, I happen to LOVE Aero Exec. (and all other Maxstyle, et. al, collaborations), and I happen to know for a fact that I have excellent taste. haha.

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okay........I read the whole thread...

I gotta few questions....cause im confused. At the start it said that you and vstyler made the skin....but later you say you didnt make it?.......im very confused bout that.

I think some of the comments were rather rude and uncalled for....i would have rather seen constructive critique rather than people just mouthing off and saying its 'ugly'...but then again.....i reckon if you dont like it for personal reasons then the best option is to just
say nothing.

second question......when and you gonna hook up with the kittster and work with her on a wb?? :LOL:  :LOL: 

ps. I reckon you and vstyler will create some kick ass skins....vstyler has a flair for very proffesional taste and pulls it off with ease....um..but what will you bring to it?..(jokinggg) :) 
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I've had the same sig on my Neowin account for years, hoping that some day some of the loud mouthed, its the internet and I'm entitled to say whatever I want, hot air balloons would take notice.

Freedom is not the right to do as I wish; it’s the responsibility to do as I should.

Anyone can be told what to do, not everyone can do what they should without being told to do it.


Neowin is a great tech site, and there's a lot of helpful people there, but its also attracted (of the sites i frequent) that largest most vocal group of whiny children (adults too) who've never had to grow up in the real world. That's what living on the internet does to some i suppose.
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Well said. If someone doesn't like Stardock's stuff, go make their own.

It is amazing what "Elite" and "Senior" members do today... They should be leading the newbies, not setting a bad example.
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Neowhiners are like bad movie critics.They have a need to drag down anybody that can do something they cant.
They have a right to their own opinions regardless of how idiotic they might be...lets just hope they stay where they are and not come infect us.

Brad,you cant win an argument with people who's minds were made up before they even begin to think.

The better something is you give or show them,the more determined they are to find something wrong with it.You actually piss them off by showing them something that they actually might want...it goes against everything they have made up their minds to hate ...forever...

HEHEHEHE...how DARE you?! :LOL: 
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1. A certain % of their patrons HATE to pay for anything.

2. ...because of that they have always resented me.. personally...goes back a LONG way.

3. Any measure of success is sure to raise a few detractory eyebrow's. I'm learning to deal with it.

4 I appreciate all the support that has been afforded me by WC, Stardock and everyone involved here.

5. Brad imagined a brilliant concept for not only this but for future extremely user friendly and useable Aero mods\clones. I am happy that I have a part to play in realizing these skins on behalf of my self and Stardock.

6. I will always defend myself. Period.

7. Thanks Brad and to everyone who through their kind words and patience will always be rewarded.
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Good on ya, Frogboy. That needed to be said. And it needs to be told again and a again and again. Skinning is an artform and as I am not an artist, I appreciate the heck out of those folks who have the talent and skills to create all the WB's walls, icons, etc.that are displayed on this site. I have no qualms purchasing MasterSkins if I like them (I have most of them) and I pass on the few that don't appeal to me.
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The negative comments is why I quit making skins. You put a great deal of time and effort into something, give it away and people that never do anything bash it. It's really sad.

BTW Executive is sweet.
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Maybe it's because I'm a sick, scummy, evil capitalist who eats babies when I'm not on here flaming web hippies
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And yet people happily work for him....;)

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Soylent Green IS people ....;)
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Wow, what an interesting thread this is becoming! Frogboy merely spoke out what many of us were thinking. I haven't submitted any artwork on here because someone might want it in another color, different font, or another size. I feel that many creative artists refuse to share because of the so called "bashing" of their many hours of hard work.
Therefore, we continue to see Vista this and Vista that themes, all of which begin to look the same after a while.
I like the idea of Master Skins. These guys certainly deserve something for their time and ideas. If you like it, buy it. If it's free, be thankful and let the artist know.
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Well said Frogboy!
It's unfortunate that Alpha Tellurian quit skinning because of negetive comments.
But most of the skinners in this community carry on because they love doing what they do.
Unfortunately there are people who, Like kittymalone said (reply #9) "..i reckon if you dont like it for personal reasons then the best option is to just
say nothing."
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I should point out that the iPhone update and added features are free, only the touch had a charge as the new features were such important enhancements and device alterations. Having said that, everything you said Brad is so obvious and correct that I am amazed how often it must be said, but I guess that sense of entitlement runs very deep.
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I thought the folks at Neowin were really mellowing on their feelings towards Windowblinds and Stardock over the past year up until this 'Aero Executive' nonesense. I can remember the times, years ago, when they would come in their droves to crap on anything and it became the norm for Frogboy, Pas, myself and others to try defend anything that went up on that site. In the past year I sensed that many of them had finally realized that Object Desktop/Windowblinds was not a 'resource hog' and that it actually was a damn good suite of programs with some excellent skins. What caused this 'mellowing'? There are several factors and one of the main ones is the healthy respect that many of them have built up for vStyler's work. Yes, John you may be surprised by that comment but a lot of folks migrated from Visual Styles to Windowblinds because of Vienna, Sexy and Harmony. Simple styles which you put together with a lot of professional care which had MASS APPEAL. I know of at least ten people, acquaintances and friends, who were staunch VS merchants who would not have touched any Stardock product with a barge pole a couple of years ago and - believe you me they just loved to throw it in my face - but these same people now have Windowblinds and have ditched VS styles. If I took Vienna and Sexy off some of them they would cry like babies, I tell you. If you add in the fact that they can put in an iconpackage, calendar, clock and weather gadget to match, they love it and you would not get them back to VS Styles, even if you paid them. I also sensed this 'mellowing; when I watched Mike's Slider XP Work in progess thread go up over there. On the whole, the Neowiners, were fairly restrained and even those who did not like it were quite complimentary towards Mike and his skills. Mike, to his credit, handled himself with utmost dignity and won himself a few fans. I started posting screenshots on their Monthly Desktop pages and did nice pieces on both the Magic and Winter Wonderland suites and I think I only received one negative comment. A few years ago they would have been all over me like a rash..........

Someone might think this is 'food for thought' but as I was reminded ealier in the week, it's really none of my business as I don't really count as I don't make skins..........

I enjoy Neowin but you don't have to be a brain surgeon to see that that they have more than their fair share of.........let's be polite and not sink to their level.....'young' followers........Just look at some of the XP/Vista/Mac threads to watch 'civil war' in action..........

It's a shame that they have reverted to some of the 'old ways' and hopefully it's just a blip caused by a few undesireables.

I said my piece about this skin in it's thread earlier in the week and I got well and truly 'slapped' by Frogboy and others for it. A certain amount of that was justified and if I had of had my 'diplomatic and sensible head on' I would have confined my comments to something like Carl's comment..........Just a little disappointed in the direction that Stardock might be going after such a great past few months with Magic, Winter Wonderland and Sirus.......Still that's 'water under the bridge' and I will continue to extol the virtues Object Desktop to everyone in my travels - many and I mean many have bought it on my recommendation - and look forward to some of the exciting developments planned for 2008

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What can I say..... It's a clear case of "smells like teen spirit"-behavior.

Whenever you have a bunch of people who have never really accomplished anything in their lifes, and who are clearly jealous of the people who did accomplish a lot, you will get a "bashing"-party. People who are not capable of creating/doing, feel obviously the need for destroying. That's the way it has been since humankind first climbed off the trees.

.... such a shame humanity doesn't seem to evolve..... (:(
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The cliche "beauty in the eye of the beholder" is so overused but is so universal. A better phrase would be that value is in the eye of the beholder.
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I think these are 2 separate discussions. The first "beauty is in the eye of the beholder" relates in my mind more properly in this setting, to those who critique the artists work, both constructively and sadly destructively based on it's appeal to them.

I'd hope as a community we can respond by continuing to develop the skills needed to support artists who offer submissions with constructive feedback. If we can learn to do it well enough, we may cease to lose or otherwise deter contributors.

"Value" as I understand it, relates not solely to how much beauty I perceive in something, but how much of my treasure (be it time, money, energy, etc.) I am willing to risk or spend in order to say that I possess some facet of that beauty.

Unfortunately, I think where a company is identified as having a monopoly on a product, it's apparent 'evilness' is enhanced. For example, it lack's options such as the ability to point to a competitors price/service and present itself as being a positive choice. As a result, to the customer, it's pricing structure becomes less obviously driven by the market and so perhaps more open to subjective criticism, however unfair and/or irrational it may be.

Personally, I think that as Stardock makes various customization products that are accessible to people on many levels, there should be a value point that works for most folks. There is a scale in which people can choose to spend energy where money is an issue, money where time is an issue etc.... it seems on balance to be a system of deployment that works well and could be reasonably described as fair from a consumers point of view.


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Maybe it's because I'm a sick, scummy, evil capitalist who eats babies
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I knew it! I knew it!.....I just knew there was something funny about you ! :LOL:

when I'm not on here flaming web hippies
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Ok bud...I resemble that remark....well partially anyway. Change the H in hippies to a D and we're cool though. Its giving us good hippies a bad rep. ;) Ok now...where's my free skins! I want'em now damn it! :LOL:

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So here's the deal: If you produce stuff then good for you. If you don't produce stuff, then you are either reliant on the good will of others to produce things for you or you will have to pay evil capitalists to labor on your behalf to produce the product, good, or service you want. And while you are free to criticize what others produce, so too are other people free to criticize you in return since, after all, criticism is a form of product too. :)
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I think it just pisses some people off that "they" either don't have the talent or ambition to produce stuff to the point that they just piss and moan when its something they "have to pay for" if they want it. Or...they're just brain dead.

When I first came to this site, one of the things "I bought" right off was ObjectDock, and when I started using it the first thing I thought to myself was "Hey...I don't see that many skin for this app." So rather than trashing the developer or the site for the limited skins available...I...without any prior training...started churning out docks like there was no tomorrow...sets of docks for 294 skins to date and counting. And I did it because I like a challenge...I like the end result when I can meet the challenge...I like to share with others...and its just plain fun. And along my little journey I've had a few disgruntle "users" with comments like "What were you thinking when you did this crap!?..and the stuff I do for the site and everyone else is free! But I just let it go like water off a ducks back. Your always going to have these kind of people. The thing is....there is a very low percentage of people who get it...life that is...and the rest are just as dumb as a bag of hammers.

Vstylers Aero Executive skin...whether you like it or not...whether its your cup of tea or not...is an excellent skin...plain and simple. Who gives a damn if its an Aero type of skin...who made the rules that there can only be one type of Aero skin? I wanna meet these people so I can smack them upside the head! Aero Executive is a nice piece of eye candy! And even though I'm partial to clear skins like Ecliz for example...I would have even bought this skin even if it had a price on it! ;)

Ya know Brad...the one thing you can't recycle in this world is wasted time. Don't waste another second or thought even considering people who produce nothing but negativity. ;)