Can we thank Clinton for this?
My husband was talking to his colleague the other day about a girl the colleague and his wife go to church with.
This teenage girl, who apparently is a pretty devout Christian, was telling the wife how she had oral sex with this guy who took her to dinner. The wife reminded the girl that she promised to wait until she was married to have sex, to which the girl replied "Oh, I AM waiting until I get married. Oral and anal sex don't count. I'm still a virgin".
This isn't the first time I've heard of such an attitude. There seem to be quite a few girls who believe that because there isn't any vaginal penetration, their virginity is still intact. I can't help but wonder if the Bill Clinton/Monica Lewinsky affair has affected the way America thinks. He called into question the very definition of sex and fornication after he got busted, and these young Christian girls seem to be doing the same thing. They're merrily going around having any kind of sex EXCEPT vaginal, thinking that it doesn't count.
As far as I'm concerned, anal and oral DO count. How about you?