| Yeah, but you seem to be totally ignoring the fact that these kids have been traumatized and are more likely to be promiscuous and use drugs and alcohol. |
Really, dharma? I have repeatedly shown that 97% of these parents have not even been CHARGED in a criminal court of law...these children are removed based on ALLEGATIONS, many of them lodged through anonymous complaints. Much of these kids' trauma stems from the fact that they lived with loving but imperfect parents until one day a lady came to their house with a clipboard, took them by the hand away from the homes they had known their whole lives, told them their parents were evil, then traded them around like chattel until at 18 they were sent out to fend for themselves after being raised in a caring, unfeeling environment. You can speculate all you want about life inside foster care, dharma, but I was THERE. I KNOW.
| It's not all CPS's fault, Gid. Yes, they make mistakes and yes, some foster homes are worse than the children's actual homes. Yes, the CPS and the foster system in this country is corrupt in places, and yes, an investigation by an outside agency is warranted. |
Yes, it IS all CPS' fault, dharma. They removed these children from their homes on the premise that the parents were incapable of parenting, and that THEY could do a better job. All too often, they place these children in homes that were worse than the ones they left. Read my article on "revisiting the foster farm" and TELL me that is in any way acceptable.
When I began researching CPS, dharma, I believed as you apparently do, that there were a few bad apples, but for the most part the good the agency does outweighs the bad. When I began to arm myself with FACTS; however, I discovered that is NOT the case; that the agency is corrupt from top to bottom, and the children who are supposed to be all important in the work they do do not matter. They are simply a means of maintaining funding.
Now, the SOCIAL WORKERS are another matter. It is my firmly held conviction that the majority of people working for CPS are doing so because they care and want to make a positive impact in society. I have seen countless stories of social workers who have been just as destroyed by this corrupt system, and who have shared stories about life inside of CPS, and I won't hang the evil CPS does on the social workers themselves. But it could also be said of Nazis that there were many people who had homes, families, and who were simply working for the Nazi regime because of conscription or a sense of duty to the Fatherland. But that didn't make the actions they performed any less evil.
You may think my comparison to Nazism is harsh, but ask any young mother with an empty crib because she simply wasn't able to pay the electric bill because the mechanic doesn't take payments, and she'll think if anything the comparison is soft.
| However, you seem to forget that the children in the system are individuals and are psychologically scarred...and will in all likelihood have some resulting behaviour problems. |
I DON'T forget who the children in the system are. I KNOW them. I WAS one of them.
And WHY are they psychologically scarred, dharma? They are psychologically scarred because they were ripped away from their parents and told their parents didn't love them anymore, didn't want them anymore. Everytime a parent doesn't show up for a hearing that that parent was NEVER TOLD ABOUT, it only reinforces the assertions of the "system" that those parents don't care for them, because they didn't take the time to make the meetings. In short, they are psychologically scarred BECAUSE of the system that was supposed to protect them.
| I'd like to see the stats on the med overdoses to see what the kids overdosed on because I'm having a hard time believing that it was ALL forced upon them and not taken inbtentionally by themselves, and I'd also like to see a sampling of the pregnancy stats to see how many of the pregnant girls claimed they were raped by their foster parents before I lay the blame soley at the feet of CPS and the foster parents involved. Do you see what I'm getting at here? I sure hope so. |
Did I lay the blame solely at CPS' feet, or those of the foster parents? I did not. Did Carole Keeton Strayhorn? She did not. I a simply asking for access to the books, which CPS closely guards the books.
I find an interesting double standard here, dharma. When I refuse to allow a government agent to enter my home, you accuse me of hiding something, despite the fact that I am only asserting rights that I have as an American citizen. Yet when I ask to see the records of that agency, you defend them and their actions. I have put forth a MOUNTAIN of evidence against the actions of CPS, and have given links to much more, yet the fact that I dare QUESTION these "noble guardians" of our children is somehow wrong or inappropriate. Questions need to be asked, and a lot of action taken against the horrible, routine atrocities of this agency, ironically enough, for the very children they purport to be acting in the "best interests" of.
Do I hold CPS to a higher standard than parents in the general population? I DO. Reason? They claim to be the parenting "experts". Any time a parent doesn't perform to their standards, they refer the parent to parenting courses that MUST be vetted and approved by them. The parent is NOT allowed to choose their own parenting courses if it doesn't have the rubber stamp of CPS. If they are the experts they claim to be, then, yes, I expect a MUCH higher standard from them from the general population.
The fact is, the statistics on foster child deaths are actually LOWER than they should be from all the evidence I have read. This is because CPS has doctors on the payroll who will give the "benefit of the doubt" to CPS when the cause of death is suspicious or questionable, and because most parents affected by CPS action don't press for a full investigation, dharma. The truth is, two deaths in my family are DIRECTLY attributable to CPS, yet neither one resulted in culpability by the agency. Since I KNOW of two deaths for which they bear full responsibility, I am inclined to believe there are many more.