Big difference in helping or giving of yourself, and being a doormat. Mason, you hit the nail on the head. It is always hard to face the truth about a certain flaw you carry. This is indeed a flaw in me since it has cost me much in my life. Helping others ranging from giving advise, list
Isen't that the truth
Marc, congradulations on finding this site. As I have, you too will find that the people (for the absolute greatest part) are fantastic listeners, writters, advise givers and takers. Be who you are and write away. Enjoy yourself. I too will be looking forward to your installments.
When I was a teenager, I wrote this "book" thinking it was a tell all diary. In writting it, at the time, it become a "brag book". I say this because, than, everything I did came from a drug induced, rebelious, angry yet seemingly very happy, & lost , mantality. Also becouse if half of my friends knew even more than they did....I would be even more of a star. It rang
ok, I do have a hotmail [email protected] I guess maybe that is the one that should be used between you and I. Yes, discretion is appreciated. By the way, I don't think I ever told you Thank you for checking out my sites. I do not know how far you went with it but I have others that are contected to that one...check it out if you would like. http://www.geocities.com/dfreedom_cricket/index.html Sherye: I will do so. Thank y
Good morning WiseFawn I have to get off of here for a short while but I will be back on in a little bit, is there a chance you will be on around noon or so? If so, I will find a way to let you know I am back, and I will look for you.
She is a lucky woman and I hope she is aware of it always. Good luck with the installation and all. Let me know how it all goes.
You have a truly delightful way of making any day feel better.
Thank you...I am going there now.
We all know the story of the stork, and the baby being left on the doorstep in a a basket, and yes, we are very aware that it is the mothers and fathers that produce these little humans, but seriously, where the heck do they REALLY come from. To watch a child develop and grow is the most amazing experience you could ever imagine and as you do, man are you subjected t
I seem to have a few mixed feelings on this topic. See I guess it becomes a arguement within myself, self-preservation, or self-sacrifice. My eniter life my mother told me that people were going to take my kindeness for a weakness, I am too giving, and I need to learn the difference between helping and REALLY helping. I am 43 years old and I am still trying to learn to ease up and not always have to be the one that comes forward to be the "savior". I s
I want to thank everyone for their support and prayers. I am at my freinds tonight so I have a chance to get on here. Ok, well, I had to get my daughter out of where she was staying cause the ladies mother has become ill and she is staying there. Now of course this makes it more worrisome, haven't a clue what to do come tommorow when it is time to go. Out of the mouths of babes though...she says, "mom, I can sleep in the car with you". Too sweet, but w
What a drag, I must leave the house I have stayed since Friday, nothing bad, just life has to go on for them and it is too much like a holiday for the kids when I am here. This also means that I will not have the access to the internet as I have...oh no! What will I do with myself? I know, I can pretend that I am on a pirate ship and the....no wait, reality is coming
Hope you don't disbelieve this...I was thinking the same thing yesterday when I was reading a certain someones post. But then again I have thought this about the net for a long time. If you ever get to my other BLOG, you will see one of my posts refers to it.."to someone they can not put a face on?" Anyway, I am glad you wrote this, I not only agree with it, I don't think I could have written it as well as you have.
Whats to disagree. I have wondered the same thing many times in my life, as a matter of fact, have had this conversation with others in my life. There already is scientific experiements in which, (the thinking at least), a genetically "perfect" human is created. I am sure you have read or heard about it, picking the proper eye color, hair color, size, and so on and so on. The next step, I am sure, will be to create a human from scratch generating sever
Good for you Dharmagrl. Keep up the GREAT work. I'll be cheering you on. Good luck in your goal.
Lead me to the land I desire, hold my hand & take me there. I wish to touch the magic & spread it to the maiden fair. Should I loose my way within this land, let me stay & smell the air, Don't take away this fantasy, for it is all of ours to share. The magic that I'll gather, has the strength to lift me high Above the darkened forrest but b
This "stuff" is making me uncomfortable. The thought of getting rid of it makes me feel lighter. I can't wait to lighten my load. When I moved my things into storage, I finally removed the heavy load. Years and years of hanging onto things that no longer were needed or suited me, was getting to be rather senseless. My friend came in with a few BIG bags, I closed my eyes and started filling the bags. A relief? No. Smart thing to do? Yes. I
yes, it is Shel. I kept sending you emails but they kept coming back. I think the last one did make it though.
Don't convince yourself too much...instant gratification could be the exact answer you may need for not only physical well being, but imagine what it could do for the mind right now. As far as the "pity party" who would possibly fault a girl her need to extend the curtousy of self indulgence when all else has tumbled in on you. That is a party then if shared with another can become very fascinating and enlightning, I would like to join in and bring my
Yes, gave me a well deserved chuckle right from deep within!! I bet this could extend even longer, everyone who replies should leave their ideas as well and this could end up being an almost infinate list. I will try and start..... .Stare around with panic and tell the closest person to you that you are afraid of elevators, could they please hold your hand to help you through.
Thank you. I thought that was what it was, but my mind was playing tricks on me.
How the heck do you add Favorites, Links and things like that? I have tried by going to my account and heve gotten no where. Also, at the risk of sounding even stupider, what does it mean when it asks for "External URL"? Ok, end of my brain fogs!!!!!!!
I believe as well. Praying in the same sense my dear. I ask that you take a look at the Article titled , Shook up, Mixed up.....another area where someone is reaching for support. I feel your goodness and believe you to be someone in which I could trust and depend on support for.
I hate coining this stupid phrase but I gotta do it, "what doesen't kill us, only makes us stronger". Listen hun, you got it pegged. the time really will fly by shortly, more for you than for him, I would think, becouse you have the kids and the responsiblities you have to keep up on, which makes the days go by a little faster. Nothing like a little irratation to break up the monotany, responsablity is the pits sometimes!(<img src="../images/smiles/lo
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