Stop sharing your business with me....

More fun at the grocery store...

My daughter and I were out shopping for a few groceries earlier today. Just a short list, basket full at the most. While in the store, I took us down the aisle where the ice cream is (one of my vices, I do like to induldge in eating ice cream) and we were checking out what brand was on sale and of those what variety we might be interested in.

While in the ice cream aisle, we seemed to be lucky enough to bump into someone who was telling an old friend (at least I hope it was old friend she was telling) about some horrible disease which had caused much grief for her, her husband, and her children, whom she had apparently passed the disease down to. Now, I'm not one to pay that much attention to other peoples business, but some people seemed so destined to share their business with others, it can't be helped.

In this woman's (and her family's) case, just by being in the ice cream aisle at the right time myself and my young daughter were able to determine that someone in the woman's family (choice between her or her husband) had picked up this disease, which apparently is a shhhhhhh! sexually transmitted disease and it was responsible for her child's ADHD and a host of other issues that needed to be talked about to this old family friend right in the middle of the store on a Sunday afternoon -- typically when many individuals would have left church and be shopping on their way home.

I know that it's fairly natural to wind up eavesdropping on other individuals conversations, but some conversations really aren't meant to be shared (or at least should not be shared) and many of them are not really appropriate material for sharing in public places.

What motivates some individuals to share their life stories with the world, or at least to ignore the fact that the world may be hearing them, escapes me. It's a level of exhibitionism that ranks right up there. I've blogged in the past about cell phone users and their ignorance of those around them. Both seem related. I half expect these are the types of individuals that would have no problem performing a sex act in the middle of an auditorium full of people, because they really seem that out of tune with the fact that most individuals don't need to know what is going on in their lives to that level of detail.

I guess I should just ignore stuff like this, but instead, I'm now thinking I need to go back to the store next week to get an update, like the next episode of Desparate Housewives or some other weekly soap opera. How I'll be able to live without knowing what happened to this family is just beyond me. Somehow I'll cope. Maybe I'll just tune in to the Oxygen channel, Soap net, or some such and watch an episode or two of whatever the current popular soap opera is. In so doing, maybe I can determine once and for all if art imitates life or is it really the other way around.
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Reply #1 Top
That's what we call - TMI - too much information. I agree its bad enough when a friend steps over the line but hearing the details of a strangers STD in the middle of the grocery store is ridiculous. Isn't it tempting to say something to her - like of that's too bad for your family. I guess you should have used a condom. You could ask her if she could speak to your church youth group about the dangers of unprotected sex. She would be shocked and appalled and would never see that she brought it on by gabbing in the middle of the store anyway.
Reply #2 Top
then again, as my Husband reminded me last night, I have no "people skills."


What?? Please. You may be a little abrasive sometimes and you can be a bit of a bitch...but so can everyone. Take no notice, you got MAD people skills, girrrl!

Terp: Maybe she had no-one else to talk to...or perhaps felt that telling everyone made her feel important and special. I dunno...but I do know that I'd have told her I really didn't want to hear it and would have left.

Hmm...maybe I don't have any people skills either....
Reply #3 Top
The sad part is that I think the person she was telling the tale to was a bit mortified at the information she was hearing. Something like telling the prior generation who was raised on rigid church standards the tales of the younger generation running out and getting a tongue stud because it makes their partner go nuts during the sex act.

As noted in Locamama's reply, just TMI.

And LW (and Dharmagrl too), would have loved to have you all there to tell the blabbermouth to shut-it. Really, the whole thing just makes me sad, as some information just isn't meant to be shared at all.
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I dont think the ADHD was a result of the STD.  It seems to be genetic in her case.
Reply #5 Top
I have a neighbor who, no kidding, described to me at length and in detail, in front of my husband, how when she had her hysterectomy the walls of her vagina might collapse.

Ewww.

Generally, people are ashamed about having STDs, and while discussion about them in a health setting is important, I can't figure out why this lady would proud enough about it to discuss it in a frozen foods setting.

I would have loudly said to my child, "Try to ignore that lady. She's talking about something really gross and inappropriate". And then I would have shot STD woman a withering glare. Haha, I do that all the time. I suppose it's rude of me, but I lack the patience and the self-censoring ability that keeps normal people from interacting with obnoxious strangers.

I am supreme ruler of my surroundings, and punk teens and vulgar women are no match for my overbearing-mom-esque comments!

Muahahahahahaha!