No, I'm not. "Grieving" is an outward expression of loss. Actively grieving (to the point of this whole thing being about grief, not some other motivation such as being pulled in by some extremest political group) for more than a year is not healthy. Even a lot of religious groups mark phases within the first year for grieving (like Judaism which has five stages ending with "Yahrzeit" which commemorates the first year). After that, you feel sorrow and loss, but not true grief.
If she is truly grieving for her son, why isn't this about her son? How many quotes have you seen where she talks about her son (other than the "you killed him" type line)? You don't.
These aren't words of grief, these are word of somebody with an agenda: ""My son was killed in 2004. I am not paying my taxes for 2004," Sheehan told an audience of Veterans for Peace. "You killed my son, George Bush, and I don't owe you a penny. ... You give my son back and I'll pay my taxes. Come after me [for back taxes] and we'll put this war on trial."
| I think that's pretty crass. |
Why? If your husband left you to protest, and during that protest was using your child's name in vain, could you stand behind him? Say you are 18 years in the future, and one of your boys bravely fights for this country because he believes in the fight and dies. Would you be OK with your husband using your fallen son's name to protest the very thing that he died for? Could you stand by his side even though he was exploiting your child's death? I'm pretty sure that I couldn't.
BTW, have you seen the statement that her family has sent out to the press? It reads:
The Sheehan family lost our beloved Casey in the Iraq War and we have been silently, respectfully grieving. We do not agree with the political motivations and publicity tactics of Cindy Sheehan. She now appears to be promoting her own personal agenda and notoriety at the expense of her son's good name and reputation. The rest of the Sheehan family supports the troops, our country, and our president, silently, with prayer and respect.
Sincerely,
Casey Sheehan's grandparents, aunts, uncles and numerous cousins.