| cleanliness becomes an issue--toilets need flushing, children need to be bathed, clothes and dishes washed.... |
You can flush a toilet without RUNNING water. Just dump a gallon and a half of water into the tank, and flush away. Likewise, clothes and dishes can be washed and baths can be taken without RUNNING water. IN the case of this family, there was no question they had the water available. They walked to the park every day and filled several jugs that they hauled back to the house on a wagon.
| But I've noticed the opposite tendency in you, you always, always seem to assume their actions weren't justified, and I think you even wrote an article some time ago listing quite a few cases that you found outrageous, but I saw justification in almost every one of them. (Like the woman who had left 3 small children, the oldest of which was only 9, alone in a hotel room while she went to work.) |
My problem was not necessarily with the involvement, but with the action. In the cases I listed, the CPS workers removed children from the home, from loving parents who may have not raised their children in a way I would have, but did at least love their children, as their actions showed. I don't disagree that there should have been SOME intervention, but I disagree TREMENDOUSLY with the interventions that were done. I don't "assume" anything, but I KNOW that in each of these cases, the parents were not able to have legal representation in keeping their children, they were presumed guilty until proven innocent, and that CPS workers performed actions without recourse that would have been deemed unconstitutional in a CRIMINAL investigation (the lack of criminal charges against the caregivers in these cases speaks VOLUMES...if they didn't have enough for a grand jury to even INDICT, why do they have enough to keep the children from their homes).
I'm not saying this particular case was justified or not, I don't have all the facts.
Do you? |
I have enough, and frankly, while I don't agree with the INITIAL CPS action, I can see where some merit is arguable. The problem I have, quite frankly, is that this family has complied with every demand of the court, the father has kept a job for over a year, and the state's NEW action is to force the mother into involuntary servitude (against the 13th amendment) with no promise of returning their children, or even of extended visitation rights. They NEVER had ANY intent of returning these children, as is becoming increasingly clear, no matter WHAT the parents do. Again, quite telling is the absence of ANY criminal charges against this family. Tell me, if you TRULY thought that a family was abusing/neglecting their children, wouldn't you want to see them behind bars?
IN this case, and many others, CPS has effectively kidnapped the children. As you well know, if your children are kidnapped, you will do anything to get them back.
| Oh, I've been meaning to pass this along in case you want to get involved in a meaningful way. Why don't you consider becoming a CASA volunteer? (Court Appointed Special Advocate.) They train you at their cost, and volunteers are always needed. |
Thanks for the link, but in this case I am actually well aware of the CASA system. They are the ones demanding that neighbors call them even if they have no evidence of abuse, but simply are suspicious of the way their neighbors are raising their child (no exaggeration....almost a direct quote from a CASA organizer). Since the vast majority of CPS cases involve children who are unwillingly removed from their parents' homes and want to be returned, I do not see where being an advocate "inside the system" would help.
I would rather (and am researching this) find a way where I could legally represent parents who have no access to legal counsel. I find it appalling that within our justice system such an action can be taken with NO legal representation mandated for the alleged abusers/neglectors.
While I appreciate your insight, as always, I will continue to reassert that my problem is NOT with removing children from an abusive/neglectful situation. My insistence, however, is based on the FACT that these parents have a RIGHT to their day in court; they have a RIGHT to face their accuser, and they have a RIGHT to a speedy and fair JURY trial to resolve their situation. The investigations should be done by TRAINED LAW ENFORCEMENT OFFICERS, not some marginally employable loser with a philosophy degree acquired from an online correspondence course (ANYONE with a bachelor's degree in ANYTHING can become a CPS worker), and if the parents are guilty, charges should be pressed. You're right when you say that in many of these cases I don't have all the information; but the information that I DO have is that in ALL of these caes, the parents were denied their day in court, a right that Ted Bundy had and that a parent accused of abuse or neglect should CERTAINLY have.
What I DO have in the case I have detailed, is the fact that NO CRIMINAL COURT has EVER accused these parents of ANYTHING. And that tells me the court should be working to return these children home. Would you disagree?