| Buddhism teaches you to feel sympathy to those who do this kind of thing? Why are you not leaving Buddism? |
No, Buddhism does NOT teach me to have sympathy, it requires that I find some compassion. There's a big difference. I cannot sympathise or empathize with this person, I cannot feel sorry for him in any way shape or form. I actually feel disgust for him, and that doesn't happen very often. As for my not leaving Buddhism...well, you made that statement not fully understanding what it's about, so I'm not going to answer.
| There is nothing wrong with detesting the evil acts people commit. I would be more concerned about someone who didn't detest them |
I do detest what he did. Absolutely.
| I can't understand how an adult could do something so horrid to a child. |
I can't either. I get irritated and mad at mine, but I have never, ever even considered doing anything worse than spanking them.....so how in the hell a person could do this to a little girl I simply do not know. I go look at mine when they're in their beds sleeping, and no matter how mad I might have been at them before they said good night the sight of them so peaceful just makes me melt.
| we all start off on this earth with a clean slate; how did his get so dirty? |
I'm not going to buy the 'I am a product of my environment and therefore I can blame every shitty thing I've ever done on my upbringing' argument either. If you realize that you do some fucked up stuff because of how you were raised, if you are that astute, then you have a responsibility to so something about it; to make a change for the better. Some people are just wired differently, and that wiring makes them..well, evil. I don't like to use that term because it's worn out and almost meaningless....but some people are just that. Evil.
| An adult has control over their actions and are solely responsible for them. For all we know he may have been a mean, selfish kid too. |
Exactly.
| I wish this was the most disgusting act against a child I had ever heard. Unfortunately, it is not. |
I know, and that makes me very, very sad.