Thoughts on Playboy....

Thousands of men, single, married, divorced, young, and old have a subscription to Playboy Magazine. For one reason or another, men everywhere are drawn to the sexy, young vixens with large tits and long hair displayed on every page. I am not sure if I should be offended or just accept the fact that this magazine will always hold some kind of standard for what thousands of men worship as the American dreamgirl.

Hugh Heffner created the magazine so that men would be able to fabricate the ultimate fantasy. There's this woman, displayed in the magazine, her breasts bare, and she's fingering herself. Just by one little spark of the imagination she can be brought to life to take care of your sexual needs.

But what about all of the wives and girlfriends out there? Isn't this behavior offensive to those that are really there, in person, and not some sexual figment of the imagination? They are all there in reality, wanting to please their men. Sure, their bodies aren't as perfect as the one's in the pictures, but these women have one thing that they don't have: a brain.

A while back, I asked Hardin his thoughts on the magazine. He said he used to be a subscriber before he met me. He decided to enter fantasy land after the break up of a long distance relationship. He rationalized that this girl used to manipulate him when they were together, so he subscribed figuring the girls in this magazine would not dick him over. He said that I changed his mind on love. He realized that he could find what he was fantasizing about in person, so there was no more attachment to the magazine.

Is it that guys are too caught up in their fantasy world and afraid to tell women what they want or do they want to keep the magazine a mysterious taboo? So tell me JU, what are your thoughts on Playboy?
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Into the forums you go!
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"Is it that guys are too caught up in their fantasy world and afraid to tell women what they want"

Ah well, it really isn't what we say it's how we say it. Now isn't it?
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Evorg:

Very interesting comment..you're right. some women might get offended that they're not getting the job done, but it's a two way street. I guess communication is the key.
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In the movie The People vs. Larry Flynt, Woody Harrelson said something to the effect that you have to be rich to enjoy Playboy.
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Iconoclast:
hmmmm....well, I know many subscribers can't be loaded...or maybe i just don't understand the statement...
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Iconoclast:hmmmm....well, I know many subscribers can't be loaded...or maybe i just don't understand the statement...


I'm not sure I understand yours, either. "Loaded"? Meaning drunk or stoned? Ok, my statement doesn't really have anything to do with your points in the body of this article, I was giving another perspective.
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I thought you meant having a substantual amount of money....hehe...I love synonnyms!
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I thought you meant having a substantual amount of money....hehe...I love synonnyms!


Oh yeah. That one. I guess that shows where my head's at. hahahaha
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I like to view Playboy as a companion for when you are single. I'm not sure why anyone would "need" the magazine if they were in a relationship...but maybe I'm just a gentlemen.

~Zoo
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I hate all porn, even the "articles."

I guess it's all jealousy based, but I"m woman enough to admit it I guess.

It really hurts me when Ryan looks at it...I almost left him in June because of it. I'd caught him once earlier on porn sites, and again in June. It makes me feel really inferior and like a total Plain Jane.

I'll never compare to anyone who's in those magazines...and if that's what he wants he's going to be disappointed his whole life so what's the fucking point?

Argh. So depressing.