I dont want to but...

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I really, really dont want to go out this weekend. AT ALL. I'm grumpy, it's raining, and i'm just not in the mood of seeing people fighting, getting drunk and show off. *SIGH*

Today's friday, payday. And i'm sure there's gonna be a nasty crowd clubbing tonight.

But Delizia is forcing me to come out. Her cousin is going back to New Caledonia on Sunday, and well since it's his last weekend here it would be nice if we could all hang out. I agree, i just dont feel like going out.

The thing is, she has bottle of Black Label ready, and she's given me some funky glow-in-the-dark earings and she said i should go out because staying home crying isnt really a good plan.

So i gave in. And i said ok.

But looking out the window to the grey sky, i really feel like staying home tonight.
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Reply #1 from JoeUser Forums Top
Listen to your heart kiddo, if you really want to stay home, tell them you do not want to go. You are the boss of you right?
Reply #2 from JoeUser Forums Top
Go out girl and have a good time! Your friends are right, you don't need to shut yourself away. Things look bad now, but they'll get better. Besides, you get to laugh at the idiots. Try my favorite game: It's called, "Spot the Alpha Male" And, once you find the Alpha Male in each group (he's usually the loudest, crudest, most annoying one) take a victory shot... or a consolence shot if your friend found him first. Then, sit back and enjoy the show.
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Reply #3 from JoeUser Forums Top
I dont know SHE, i think i'll follow moderateman's advice, the wheather is really horrible, and if i go out and it's going to be like last time then it's really not worth it.
I'll see i'll probably hang out for a couple of drinks and then see how i feel...
Reply #4 from JoeUser Forums Top
I'm with SHE, Em. Get out of the house and away from the little things reminding you of Darren. I say go out and get falling about, singing loudly off-tune drunk, dance until you can't dance no more then collapse in the nearest cute boy's arms and let him worry about whether you're going to be sick all over his nice new shirt.

Remember: it is hopeless feeling sorry for yourself if you can't make your friends feel sorry as well.

Have a wonderful weekend.

Cheers,

Maso
Reply #5 from JoeUser Forums Top
Sorry to jump on the bandwagon IG, but I'd go out as well. Remember that if you're having a truly terrible time you can always go home.

The thing that is so exciting about life is that you never know what's around the corner. You don't know who you will meet (and I don't mean romantically as I know that you, like me, are so far from looking for someone new it's not funny), what cool conversation you'll have or what you'll see. Do as Maso said and dance like a loon, sing like a banshee and generally behave like a complete tit. Sometimes the only way to deal with the ridiculous is to become ridiculous yourself.

If you go, have fun and report back with all the gory details.

Suz xxx
Reply #6 from JoeUser Forums Top

I think this is turning into a male female issue as the ladies are saying go, and I am with Moderateman.  If you dont feel like it, stay home.

I wonder if that is just something to do with the difference between men and women?  Curious.

Reply #8 from JoeUser Forums Top
Heehee, you guys... I went out, but i'll just write a blog about it in a second... And shovelheat: SO GLAD TO SEE A COMMENT FROM YOU HERE
Reply #10 from JoeUser Forums Top

Heehee, you guys... I went out, but i'll just write a blog about it in a second... And shovelheat: SO GLAD TO SEE A COMMENT FROM YOU HERE

I second that remark, and I also say you just proved my point!  men are from whatever and women will never be understood!  Glad you are smiling as it is.

Reply #11 from JoeUser Forums Top
Hehe Dr Guy, i know, i sometimes dont even understand myself... I'm smiling, but it's kind of bitter sweet...

I just wrote an article about that night though, if you wanna check it out.
Reply #12 from JoeUser Forums Top

Hehe Dr Guy, i know, i sometimes dont even understand myself... I'm smiling, but it's kind of bitter sweet...

I just wrote an article about that night though, if you wanna check it out.

I just read your latest.  I have no answers.  I am only male. Sorry.  I wish the best.  I dont know the answers.

Reply #13 from JoeUser Forums Top
ooops! Duplicate post! Just the stupid computer. So have a cookie.
Reply #14 from JoeUser Forums Top
Glad to be here, IG! Oh, and here, you might need this: Link

Haha! that looks like a good one, i'll need to check it out thoroughly

I just read your latest. I have no answers. I am only male. Sorry. I wish the best. I dont know the answers.

It's ok DrGuy, thanks for the wishes. And a male's point of vue is always helpful for a confused lady like moi!

ooops! Duplicate post! Just the stupid computer. So have a cookie.

I know, i've been having double posts this morning too! But heh, i love cookies, yumma, yumma...
Reply #15 from JoeUser Forums Top
Hehehe...men v. women. Isn't that the story of our lives?
Reply #16 from JoeUser Forums Top
SHE:
Definetely (except the women seem to always win! )