All My Insecurities Exposed

from JoeUser Forums
Do you ever wish you could've just kept your big mouth shut? I guess it's better when someone you love knows you fully; faults, insecurities and all, but what happens when your thoughts are given away on accident? When someone reads all your posts on JU, where you're okay with sharing your heart with strangers? What happens when you ramble about how great JU is, and someone actually takes the time to figure out your user name? What happens when your feelings about that person are completely exposed, because this is where you think?

It's kind of like in "What Women Want" when he knows everything the women are thinking. Now he knows everything I've been thinking, all my insecurities that strangely enough I only share with people I've never met. I suppose it's disappointing and relieving all at once.

~Sarah
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Reply #1 from JoeUser Forums Top

I just want to make sure you know that it should be much more relieving than dissapointing.  I know that's a very "trin" thing to say, but girl, relationships are nothing if your not honest.  IT's like watching the relationship of two strangers from afar.

Trinitie

Reply #2 from JoeUser Forums Top
I feel all right with telling everybody here my thoughts and feelings, but definitely feel a bit squirmy about having my co-workers and uninvited friends read my blog. I've got nothing to be ashamed of, but hell, I'd hate to have someone call me on my thoughts when I wasn't ready to verbally articulate it all.

Nic
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Reply #3 from JoeUser Forums Top

good point, NIc


Trinitie

Reply #4 from JoeUser Forums Top
Thanks ladies... Trin, you're right, though. With him, it's only fair that I'm open and honest about my feelings.

You put it well, Nicky.

~Sarah
Reply #5 from JoeUser Forums Top
I worry about that. I say a lot of stupid things, and I'm sure some of what I say would be taken out of context. If what you say about that person isn't mean-spirited though, I see only benefits (and a bit of embarrassment and awkwardness) from them knowing what you think of them. Otherwise, denial is always an option.