needing assistance.

wow...where to start

You can get the whole shebang and get a subscription to ObjectDesktop here: https://www.stardock.com/products/odnt/

That will save you lots of $$$. If you want the products one at a time....

for skinning windows and etc go here for windowblinds: http://www.windowblinds.net

for making custom bars, start panel/taskbar things go here for ObjectBar: http://https://www.stardock.com/products/objectbar/

for customizing your entire icon experience go here for iconpackager: https://www.stardock.com/products/iconpackager/

for customizing your cursors go here for cursorXP: https://www.stardock.com/products/cursorxp/

Then go to https://www.wincustomize.com and look around for all the themes available.

have fun

thank you very much, you tha man!