Suitemate Rant

You know, I am tired. I just got back from spring break, and the day before I had left, I had gotten into a large argument with Jasmine, one of my suitemates. Since I'm still really sore about that subject, I'm not going to post it on here, if you want to know, email me.

Anyways, I was really hard to get along with, thinking it was my way or the highway. Well, I've learned to relent a bit and respect others for their privacy and life space. I don't listen to music much, and I usually enjoy the peace and quiet to think and do my homework, but one of my suitemates enjoys cranking up the music. It's really loud, and I have trouble hearing my own music through my own headphones in my room (an attempt to drown out her music). It is too loud, this music thing of hers, especially at like 10 in the morning.

I would like to be able to wake up peacefully one morning and have a good morning without having to listen to music I don't like very much. I really don't like rap, and I wish she would keep her music to the moderate level. My other suitemate, one I talk and are friends with, can't stand her either, and she lives with the person.

Then there's the bathroom lock out. My suitemates and I share a bathroom and there are locks on both sides of the doors on both doors. Whenever she goes to the bathroom, she'll always forget to unlock my side of the door. This is a frequent thing, and I've called the Residential Assistants too many times to open my bathroom door. I don't want to get my friend on the other side fined for this, but what else can I do about her irresponsible behavior?

I don't know, I'm just tired of putting up with a lot of things she does... whether it's the loud music, locking me out of the bathroom just cause she forgets to unlock the door after she leaves, or not answering the door when I knock... it's all really annoying.

She might be on drugs, according to my other suitemate (no proof), and I have made the advice to go talk to the people in the AC office, my roommate, my suitemate, and I... all three of us... tell them of our concerns and let them deal with it.

I'm really tired of all this... I want peace and quiet just enough so that I can do my homework. She doesn't have to keep the music off, she just needs to keep it down to a moderate level. When people living in the entire hallway can hear her music, it is too loud... I don't think I'm being unfair.

Just a rant I felt that I had to get out of me or I'll explode.