Am I being unfair?
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I am having issues dealing with my husband. I work parttime 3 hours a day and stay home with my son.... My husband seems to think that I should work more and find a babysitter, this would have to be someone that we knew ie: parents grandparents ect... because thats how he thinks it should be, His grandma used to watch Waylon alot but now she watches his uncles baby all teh time. My grandma would volenteer to watch him somedays but my uncle is in the hospital plus the woman is 79 years old and can only handle him for acouple hours ( I said I only work 3 hours a day) I dont really feel right having her watch him anyway she is 79 years old! My other grandma works but used to watch him on the days she had off but this is the 79 year old womas daughter and my uncle is in the hospital and she has been spending most of her time there all our parents work..... Who am I sopose to have watch him???
Then he is mad because I go out and do things with my friends durring the week and on the weekends stay home with him... Now I understand he needs his space. I stay home because I like my husband and like to spend time with him. My friends do spend time with their families on the weekends so I dont have much to do. He says he needs his time to himself thats fine... So if I ask him if he wants to leave or if he wants me to leave he gets mad! Im not sure if I am being selfish...
Then he is mad because I go out and do things with my friends durring the week and on the weekends stay home with him... Now I understand he needs his space. I stay home because I like my husband and like to spend time with him. My friends do spend time with their families on the weekends so I dont have much to do. He says he needs his time to himself thats fine... So if I ask him if he wants to leave or if he wants me to leave he gets mad! Im not sure if I am being selfish...