Help me please!!!!!!!

The system tray is the area next to the clock, on the bottom taskbar, that holds running programs.

You only really need Object Bar if you are running Windows98. If this is the case, then you need WinXP to get the best effects of the programs. Someone else will have to come along to explain it. It was a pain in the neck. Basically there is a configuration setting that will use your current windowblind skin. You might be able to get to the configuration menu by clicking the object bar system tray icon. Or, right clicking it. I forget for sure.
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i'm.. not sure where to begin..

launch the object bar program from startdock central, if you have it, or launch it from the start menu. if you dont have icons there then launch it from the program's folder itself.. typically c:\program files\stardock\objectbar.

then what happens?