So much for my ambition

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Remember my WIP thread, (and the offers I made to help others) where I thought I would have these past 2 days to create skins -- that's been put on the back burner.  I had to take my daughter to the hospital late Monday evening/early Tuesday morning because she was having severe right upper quadrant pain -- when the CT scan of her abdomen came back, they found a grapefruit sized cyst on her ovary which was pushing all the rest of her organs into her upper abdomen -- the surgeon gave us a scare with the cancer talk, but today she had her surgery and it wasn't cancerous.  Now I have to nurse my baby back to health (she has a lot of other health-related issues that are being cared for now finally)but it's going to be a long road to recovery, so all my free time is going to be spent helping her get better and working overtime to pay for it all since she just got out of tech school and doesn't have a job and/or insurance to pay for this major abdominal surgery, and since she doesn't have children herself and is over the age of 19, she is ineligible for Medicaid.

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Reply #1 from WinCustomize Forums Top

Wow, very sorry to hear this.  Glad to hear it wasn't cancerous.  Life does have a way of interupting what we would rather be doing.  Get her well and you also take care.  We will all be thinking about you. 

Ah when she's able to, sit her in front of the computer and put her to work.:O

Reply #2 from WinCustomize Forums Top

Take whatever time you need, we will still be here when she is healthy again. I'll say a prayer for her speedy recovery.

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Reply #3 from WinCustomize Forums Top

Thank G-d it's benign. What matters in life is the people we love. Everything else is in last place. So, sweety...save the skin 'til later. Make sure she recovers...And don't forget how much the folks who value you care. OK?  <3

Reply #4 from WinCustomize Forums Top

Sorry to hear this. She is lucky to have a mom who cares enough to take care of her.

I'll be looking forward to your return..... Yes! Really, I will! :grin:

Reply #5 from WinCustomize Forums Top

damn sorry to hear the news karen but glad to hear all went well...havent seen you on in a while so i was beginning to wonder...hope to chat soon

 

Reply #6 from WinCustomize Forums Top

Sorry to hear this. I wish her a speedy recovery. Take care. <3

Reply #7 from WinCustomize Forums Top

im glad it wasnt cancer...hope she gets well soon!!<3

Reply #8 from WinCustomize Forums Top

This sort of stuff always takes second (or third or fourth) place to family. I hope your daughter makes a full and rapid recovery, Karen.

 

Reply #9 from WinCustomize Forums Top

So sorry to hear that K10w3. In my thoughts you and your family are and my prayers. Here's hoping for a speedy recovery for your daughter. Take all the time you need. There is no rush. Nothing is more important than family. Love to you guys.<3 <3 <3 <3 <3

Reply #10 from WinCustomize Forums Top

These are the times when you need your dearest ones besides you the most, and I feel glad to know that you are there for your daughter when she needs you the most, so you're doing a great job, leeve the rest on Almighty God and hope she recovers soon.

Our prayers for you and your daughter <3 take care !!

Reply #11 from WinCustomize Forums Top

Wow! Glad to hear that she's on the road to recovery. Hang in there!

Reply #12 from WinCustomize Forums Top

Family always comes first Karen, so we'll be waiting for more news as you have the time.  We all hope any news is only the best.

Reply #13 from WinCustomize Forums Top

Best of luck to your daughter and you Karen. 

Reply #14 from WinCustomize Forums Top

Karen I know exactly how you feel, life just seems to catch you at the worst most possible moment, not eligible for medicare as she is overage, where in God's namae does make patients pay up front before we work or make them better in the Hypocratic oath, I'm just so happy that at times like this we have our Moms and Dads, cos without ours coming to the resue at our tragic accident, who knows what we would have done, so Karen your're the best thing possible in your daughters life at the moment, you will get her well....god speed, Godbless and all the prayers of the world go out to you......look after yourself as well, cos this can be trying times...love yer lots...the Thug :') :') :grin:

Reply #15 from WinCustomize Forums Top

wishing your daughter a speedy recovery

Reply #16 from WinCustomize Forums Top

Thanks, everybody, for the well wishes for my daughter.  She's coming home from the hospital tomorrow.  My stress level will go down a half a point (I THINK....I don't know, maybe having her home and having to play nurse, primary caretaker, and sole income provider it will still choke me, I'm not sure, but I think it should go down a tad).