We have feelings too…

Women and our right to be equal.

Women have always been known as the “weaker sex”… basically from the beginning of time. It has always been thought that women should stay at home and raise the kids and the husband is the protector and provider. It has been just 40 or so years ago that us women gained the right to vote. Since then, more women are going to colleges and getting a better education. More women are doctors and lawyers. But, when we gain new rights, so do men. Women and men will never have equality. Women will always be the weak part of society …

There are careers that were created especially for men, like construction work and welding (and some women carry those jobs too), but the jobs that men and women can share… men still are paid more. I mean, a male doctor is paid more than a female doctor… when they are doing the exact same job! Tell me… how? Just because men rise above women in strength and stature doesn’t mean that they should be paid more when they are doing the EXACT same work. It is ridiculous… we can go to school for the same amount of time, serve and internship for the same amount of time, and be in our profession for the same amount of time… and still the man gets more when they are doing the same amount of work with the same quality…

Also, men seem to always be the controlling part of a relationship. You see husbands grab their wives’ arms and whip them around if they say or do something that is against them (I’m not saying ALL men do that… I just know that abuse happens). I also know that there are some women who abuse men… and that is uncalled for also. But for a man, who is twice the size and twice the strength of a woman, jerks her around, hits her and yells in her face is more than uncalled for. That should be abuse as well as discrimination.

As a woman, I will never bow down to any man… The relationships I sustain will be mutual, and we will love and respect each other the same. I will not sit there and take a man yelling in my face. No one, especially a man who is equal to me, will yell at me for something I did wrong. I have the capability to learn from my mistakes, and I do not need anyone to reinforce them.

For everyone out there who thinks this is overrated… think again. Women walk around carrying their husband’s last name. Woman in most households fix the breakfast, lunch and dinner… (And I know there are some exceptions with the man of the house actually knowing how to cook or is nice enough to attempt to cook.) We carry YOUR offspring for nine months, without us… society would crumble away. So put yourself in a woman’s shoes… respect them, love them, cherish them… like we do to you… We are your future, just like you are ours. Give us the dignity we deserve.

You may have the power of the past… but we have the minds of the future.

I hold my views strongly, so why don’t you?

Stand your ground.

~Sam
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Yes....we do have feelings. I agree. And some guys *cough*alex*cough* don't understand how girls feel. And I get so fed up with it at times, that all I know to do is cry. Maybe I shouldn't, who knows. Good article.

~carebear~
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Yeah we do have feelings and help this socitey a lot with out us who knows what would happen... For all we know Capt.. could be carrying Alex's baby.. Oh no... Just kiddin... But really couldn't u see it....Like the movie Junior with Arnold S.. in it... Just thought oh well... Anyways ...
I would like to sit home and raise my kids, have my husband last name, and I think I would enjoy being pregnant, even though you hear all those stories about what happened with people in all.. I think I would enjoy it .. You migh think I am crazy but that was the way I was brought up I guess..

Stacey
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Women should break out of the shells they are being kept in and do what they want to do.

Actually, the reason i think women should work is to take a load off the man of the house. But, when i get ready to start and raise a family... i will probably quit the job i have and find a home job so i can raise my children how i was raised.... with a mother around 24/7. Which is completely fair in that perspecive.... taking care and raising a child for no income is much more of a job than sitting on a computer, typing for hours, and then getting paid.

Every woman should get an education and not rely soley on a man for her income... she should be able to keep a lifestyle on her own.

I was brought up with my mother quiting college and being a stay at home mom. I think i will do that after i have my baby... only for the baby's sake. I want to prove that i am independent.... but after having a child, they will need attention constantly. But i will have my degree(s) just incase i want to go back to the workforce after my kids get older.

I dont think you are crazy Stacey, because just like you, i cant wait until i can raise my own family and have my own baby(babies). It is a maternal instinct i guess. But i still want to work to help my husband. He supports me, I support him.

It's tough.... i still dont even have this completely thought out. I am so confused on how exactly i want to live my life. So i will live each day as it comes at me.

~Sam
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It's tough.... i still dont even have this completely thought out. I am so confused on how exactly i want to live my life. So i will live each day as it comes at me.


That's the best thing to do.

I personally believe women deserve the same pay as men for the same job. The best way to state my postition is "Equal but Different" Because, physically, emotionally, mentally, men and women are not the same.

I'll see you at school tomorrow,

Love,

Alex
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Sieg heil mein fuhrer!..., I agree that women should be treated more "equal" but not all the way...there's no fun in that. I mean if women were equal and got equal pay(which I wouldn't mind but for the sake of the joke, let's continue) Where would we big strong guys be? We wouldn't be needed to pick up furniture, open jars, or kill spiders for you. Also, if we didn't get more money then all the women would marry eachother....because then they really wouldn't need us.......heh. Ok, on a serious note....the pay should be based on skill not sex, and women shouldn't be regarded as inferior...but it does give us a bit of a power high, viewing us as the protectors...that's how men are made...to protect and provide....so, once in awhile we need it....

~Zoo