Friday Night Patch Bugs

After installing the patch for demigod that from friday night (may 22nd) I can no longer join games.

Either:

A)I crash while trying to connect to players (I enter the lobby, but get an unhandled exception after a minute or so)

B)cannot connect period to anyone (either via proxy or nat)

C)Shows 0 ping even though the connection info shows me connected to everyone.

Previously the only times I could connect and play demigod multiplayer was before any patches were introduced and then during the proxy server patch. Now I cannot play period (tried about a dozen or so games last night after the patch). Is there an error log somewhere that I should post or does it go away once you exit demigod?