Whats with sex, cleavage and guys?

Article about my visit to the club

been a while since i sat down and wrote something on my blog...i have been here regularly but just that past 1 - 2 weeks, not been able to sit down and spend some time updating this...as some of u people might realise, i have been busy with classes, meeting friends and going places...now that there is only 6 more mnths to go for me to finish college, i am really getting ready to become a freak out gal...so have started getting ready with tshirts with all kinds of sexy messages...also started to go to clubs...been to a club for 3 nights over the past 10 days...thats some kind of a record for me...and all 3 nights i wore tshirts which made the guys ogle at me...

not only the captions on it but had worn it in such a way that the guys can see some cleavage....little more than what is there on my pic...i loved all the attention that i got from the guys...was not sure whether they were paying attention to my cleavage or to the caption on my breasts...did not mind either as long as they were looking at me...since i had this tshirt with a big cut between my breasts, i took solitaire's advice and put the caption 'come here' on it...

i dont know what is it between guys and cleavage...in my place, u dont see gals showing any cleavage at all...and their boyfriends also dont like it..my room mate runs scared if i ask her to put on a revealing dress or to put sexy captions on her tshirt...she is scared that her bf might get angry with her...guess her bf is pretty possesive of her...which normal bfs are...thank goodness i dont have one...cos i live what and how i feel like and dont want a possessive bf telling me what to do, what to wear etc...

anyway, back to the club...i guess i was irritating a lot of gals there cos their bfs were spending more time looking at me than at them...i loved it...i really did...and as usual, there were a stream of guys coming and talk to me...dont know whether they came to me to talk or have a close look atmy cleavage...lol...anyway, i watched the jeans of these guys...when they came towards me, it was pretty normal...but once they spend some time talking and looking at me, i could see that their jeans were beginning to bulge...i could not stop laughing and some guys were pretty confused on why i was laughing...i know that they were getting hard...it was pretty crowded, so i had to stand for sometime...then there was this guy coming towards me...by the look on his face, i knew that he was upto something...he came close to me and as it was very crowded, i was being pushed and he was too...though not much...but once he came close to me, he lunged a bit as if the crowd had pushed him and then made his bulge hit against my region...and then he disappeared in the crowd...dont know whether he did that to arouse himself( he was already very hard seeing the size of his bulging pants) or to arouse me...cos of this i got this feeling of both anger as well as happiness...a feeling which i could not describe...guess guys would be like that...probably it was an invite but i was in no mood for that...and as i come to this place voluntarily, i guess i could not complain...

lots of time, cos of the crowd, i had to scrape my breasts against the ogling guys...could not help it...and frankly, for the cute guys who were not looking at me, i made it a point to press my breasts against their chest as i went past them so that they would notice me...i guess i am like that...cant help it...lol...

but i am a bit scared that all this is going to lead to something bad pretty soon...dont know ...hope nothing bad happens...will have to see....
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Hi Manisha I pity u really guess u should be here in UK where grls do whatever and whenever they feel lke and as for cleavage well am really fed up of them , but as u said in India when I was livin there Cleavages were a big turn ons 'cos we got to see so few of them............But after comin to uk well t's become routine......But now I sorely miss dark haired beauties
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hey joe...nice to hear that u were in india...as u said, u dont get to see girls here in this place showing cleavage and since i live here, i have to live with the society...no other choice though i would love to wear what i want and roam abt....probably i should be there in UK or USA...but frankly, i like india....there may be a few negatives as with every place but still this is my home...as for wearing what i want, there are a few places here where i can wear what i want...lets c how it goes...
Reply #3 Top
Hi what i meant was i am in UK but actually i'm an indian and have come to uk just last year and this place rocks
Reply #4 Top
Hi Manisha, I agree with you. First its because in India guys don't get to see girls in revealing stuff so thats the reason they go ga ga when girls dress like you did. Also once a girl has a bf I am sure he won't like his gf showing off her in public. That might be possesive nature but thats how it is i guess. I don't have a GF but I am sure if I had one I will also be the same. And don't worry nothing bad will happen to you.

BTW where in India are you ??
Reply #5 Top
Well.... at least you're calling them "clubs" now

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I have kept completely out of all the hoopla about your blogs and usually only put out messages when something really moves me or irritates the hell out of me and this is one of them.

I find it shocking to beleive you are almost out of school and act like you are 15 years old. You say you hope something bad doesn't happen to you....I would be shocked if something didn't happen to you in the near future. Your behavior is appalling. You set back the progess women have made in the last 100 years with your fascination in getting guys' attention with your body. I think a read in one of your earlier blogs that you were studying engineering. How is anyone going to take you seriously in that proffesion when you act like a twit. There are a lot of sickos out there in the world and with your teasing nature, you are bound to get unwanted and possibly dangerous attention that could affect the rest of your life.

You are certainly entitled to write whatever you want on your blog but I do seriously hope for your sake that you have more going for you in the future than your body. Boobs will eventually sag, your face will eventually get wrinkles and then what will you have to rely on to get attention?
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I agree with Varoom. It is good to enjoy the present Manya, but you should start to get a grip and think about your future. You might think it doesnt matter, but sooner or later you'll realize it does. And hopefully you wont realize it in a bad way.
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Hey Manya
Do you think you might be a bit full of yourself ?
I bet I would get more attention than you..
Reply #9 Top

Boobs will eventually sag, your face will eventually get wrinkles and then what will you have to rely on to get attention?


Yeah, what happens when your looks 'go'?  And they will, you know....either you'll get old, or (buddha forbid) you'll have a horrible accident and be permanently disfigured.  than what?  what if you get breast cancer and have to have a mastectomy? 


Phoenix, I'm sure you'd get more attention than her......

Reply #10 Top
but i am a bit scared that all this is going to lead to something bad pretty soon...dont know ...hope nothing bad happens...will have to see....


And I'm sure you'll give us all the gory details...ahem.
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hey joe_black....nice to hear that u r enjoying urself...i guess i am too...

hey desi, guess u do know what is happening in india....unfortunately, few people do not know and they dont care to listen as well...and i realise that guys would be posessive of their gfs...in fact, i am a bit posessive of my room mate cos she is my close friend....as for where i am, i am in chennai...


as for me getting old or getting disfigured or getting breast cancer, well...if that happens, it happens...i cant avoid it..just like death...so should i start crying now just cos i am going to die some day?? i am young now, i am beautiful, i have good big breasts and i get the attention..and i dont know how long i am going to have all these and so i want to enjoy these till i can and till i have them....is that wrong???

sorry people, i cant live life the way others want me to....and i cant write my blog the way others want me to...i live life according to how i want to and i write what i want to...cant change that....if i had to change that, i would rather stop writing...and thats not gonna stop for the next 6 mnths atleast....
Reply #12 Top
Hi Manisha
Its desi again (Now my nick name is Ash_in_USA).

I agree with you. You dont need to change. Be ur self. But just be careful Thats what I will say as a friend (if u wish). What has to happen will happen. Whats the point in ruining ur present thinking abt the future. I hope everybody realises this.
And dont stop blogging.
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thanks ash....that was a really cool comment....and u r right...i wont stop blogging...atleast for now...
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lol...quite interesting blogs...
Reply #15 Top
Actually, Manya...not all men are "Breast" men....mine is actually a "behind" man... lol.., which is good for me because although I am not big on top, I am certainly blessed with a latin woman's figure lol...He's also an "eye" man lol