The day i lost my Virginity

Great feeling

hmmm....sometime back i read an article about how a gal had lost her virginity to a man and how the man had cheated her all along and then how he had dumped her the day after they had sex...well, that just confirmed the idea abt how they have sex in usa...i always had this idea that in western countries, they have sex much more freely than they have in india and how it is freely possible for even 15 yr olds to have sex...and more gals seem to do it just for the experience of having sex and not out of love....

there are 2 ways of having sex....one is born out of love for each other....that sex experience lasts for a long time and has a lot of foreplay and less of pain....another is having sex for the heck of it...just to get an experience and get the fun part of it and enjoy an orgasm...i am sure, all of us, especially girls like me, like it to be done the first way....i love to have sex which is tender, soft and lasts for a long time...i am ready to wait all my life for it...thankfully i need not have to wait that long...i had sex for the first time when i was 21...

i still remember the day very clearly...it took a little more than 3 hrs for us to have sex and i still remember each minute of it...he was a fellow model and we had worked on several assignments together....we knew each other for abt 3-4 yrs..we did not stay together for sex...there were lots of times when we were together but not once did he even kiss me...we knew that sex between us just 'had to happen' on its own and if we tried to force it, it would just be like doing something for the sake of it...

so one fine day, we decided to give ourselves to each other...that was it...he gave himself to me and i could do what i wanted with him...and i gave myself to him and he could do what he wanted with me...for 3 hrs we had the best time of our lives...

there was a lot of kissing, sucking, massaging and biting....the biting was painful but of course, u dont bother abt that when u make love...he started off from my top and then slowly moved downwards and when he played with my clit, goodness, that was a wonderful feeling....i moaned and graoned all the time...it was wonderful...he continued playing with me for abt an hr and then he lay down and gave himself to me...what i like, he should be liking too...right?? so i also started from top and worked all the way down....and when i was sucking, he seemed to enjoy it as i could understand it from his moans....this we continued for abt 2.5 hrs and finally he decided to insert....i had already started to become wet...

and so enough lubrication was available...of course, it was painful but the fact that we had been doing foreplay and had been loving each other for so long probably reduced the pain...but he was also too good..he ensured that it was not painful...he kept looking at my face to see my reaction...whenever my face got screwed cos of the pain, he would slow down...so we went on like this for abt 30-45 mins and finally the thing was not painful enough and he could finish it...

we then lay there for abt 15-20 mins....and so it went...my goodness...i feel so good even now when i think abt it....
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Reply #1 Top

You need to start marking things like this as adult content or they will be removed.

Also, uncheck the "post to forums" box if you don't want it moderated on the forums.  This is a voilation of our terms of use.

Reply #2 Top
hi....thanks...i dont have problem marking it as 'adult' and removing it from the forums but i found a similar article by tangled wishes Link notbeing marked as adult...

in that article and in the comments following that, there were free use of words like sex, orgasm etc....and i was hoping to find atleast one comment similar to urs but to the contrary, i found many people adding more and more abt how they had sex, orgasm etcin contrast to the hue and cry which was raised for my article on masturbation....and the article has been there for more than 6 mnths....can u pls explain this double standards??

Reply #3 Top
Please see your *other* article that I responded to about this.
Reply #4 Top
Yes, you should have marked the "Adult Content, button.
With that said, I have to give you credit for writing such an article on something so personal.

I'm not sure that I could do that, or if I would even want to.
Reply #5 Top
thanks insightful....thats a great comment... i really appreciate it....
Reply #6 Top
hey manisha,
i really appreciate that you have been so honest abt your thoughts and opinions.
i really liked the way u described ur first sex with ur partner ...

keep it up .. i will keep peeking in regurarly ..

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