Life sucks...

from JoeUser Forums
Well lets see... I started in Indiana, back in May, moved to Massachusetts and lived out there for 2 months, and then moved to Vegas, and it appears I will soon be moving back to Indiana, back to live with my parents.

I feel like a 100% failure right now. I go out, and try to live on my own and just get fucked over, can't hold a good job, and now have to hope my parents will be kind enough to let me move back in and shoulder the burden that is me.

I can't think of much to say really that wouldn't be pure drivel about my pissed offedness and depression so I think I'll just go to bed.
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Reply #1 from JoeUser Forums Top
Hey man,

Sorry to hear that things aren't going so well for you at the moment. I was going to say something pithy like 'You can be thankful that you have your folks to move back in with' but who likes living with their folks, hey? All I can say is this - things will get better. They always do. Take some time out, relax and attack life again.

The one pithy thing I will say is that I don't believe in failure. Sometimes there are just things you have to learn and you can only learn them by not getting your way.

Take care,

Suz xxx
Reply #2 from JoeUser Forums Top

Dude, you're not a failure.  Not in the slightest.  Things just didn't work out for you this time.  Happens to all of us at some point.

You know there are some things that you need to work on, and if you do have to move back to Indiana I think that'd be a good opportunity for you to work on them. 

Oh, and you can come and see me!  I'll be in the Vincennes area pretty regularly, so let me know when you're back and we'll try and have lunch or something..sound good?

 

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Reply #3 from JoeUser Forums Top
Join the military, the only organization hiring in the US. They need everyone they can get.
Reply #4 from JoeUser Forums Top
Don't be angry at yourself for too long. Sometimes things just can't be helped. You just need to regroup your thoughts and restrategize and then go at it again.

I wish you the better road ahead, M-Post.
Reply #5 from JoeUser Forums Top
Thank you all for the comments, even though I was just depressed and pissed off last night having you guys respond gave me a bit more good cheer than normal in the morning

I agree with you about failure Flooze, or maybe I should say I agree with not agree'ing about it. It's good to fail because a lot of times you learn things from failure that you would never have learned elsewise.

Dharma, well I guess sometime I could stand to go back into that town, a lot of College memories from there though if ya know what I mean... lol But I will only be living 2 hours from there. I just hope that if I do move to Indiana I'll be finding some way to get back onto my feet quick because I really don't want to leach off the parents.

Prop, I'm actually seriously considering it. I just want some time first to get back into shape so that boot camp wouldn't kill me hehe

And thanks also Raven, very correct on things. Mainly I just needed a vent source last night so I used this. True may not sound like much of a vent in all, but it was helpful hehe

Again thank you all for the responces and being so caring.
Reply #6 from JoeUser Forums Top

Dharma, well I guess sometime I could stand to go back into that town, a lot of College memories from there though if ya know what I mean


Yes, I do!  I married someone who has a lot of college memories from there....his folks still live on West Jefferson, his Aunt on Eberwine, and his grandfather on East Reel.


 We could always meet at the Black Buggy or the Dogwood instead....that's about halfway for both of us, I think.  You know if you ever want to get away from there for a few days you can head over to my neck of the woods.  We have a hide-a-bed.....!

Reply #7 from JoeUser Forums Top
Lol, well Dharma it's a long story but I SWEAR that the gates of hell are in Vincennes..... we were out walking by the river close to one of the train bridges out there and suddenly in the water we see these 2 tall pillars of flame.... Though I will admit that some illicit substances were in use at the time.....

And very risky of ya to invite me over just like that.. cuz I might someday come through and do it!! hehehe
Reply #8 from JoeUser Forums Top

And very risky of ya to invite me over just like that.. cuz I might someday come through and do it!! hehehe


No, not really.  I live on base.  You can't get on unless you have ID or I come and sign you on. 


And, I have guns.


 

Reply #9 from JoeUser Forums Top
@ dharma.

M-Post: You know, I think it takes most people a good while to figure out which direction to go with their lives. Don't be too hard on yourself. I know you're not looking forward to living with your family, but it's awesome that they are willing to help you out. My family is the same way . . . we take care of each other. No one in my family (the big, extended version) will ever go hungry or homeless. Sorry things are sucking . . .
Reply #10 from JoeUser Forums Top
Thanks for the comment Tex... And I can't help but be too hard on myself.. it's just my nature =/

I am glad they are willing to help me out though... though what hurts me the most is the sadness in my mom's voice when I had to ask her if I could move back in... that alone almost broke me....