Down and Out in America

Well, today marks 20 days without gainful employment. Homelessness is a very real, and very imminent possibility, although we haven't received the eviction notice yet (we have five business days after receipt of the eviction notice). I decided that it would be a good idea to go ahead and blog about my experience, that way I have a recoverable record for later writing purposes. This is NOT a "pity me" blog, it is a record of the facts for my own purposes, I just felt it appropriate to allow you to share.

I filed for unemployment on August 18, the day I was released from my job. I still have yet to receive final determination of my approval (I filed in Wisconsin, to preserve my benefits in Nevada in case I need them later). We bit the bullet and applied for TANF, but are still a ways from getting any cash benefits (we have food stamps, fortunately, so we won't starve). Nevada law requires 20 job searches per adult in the household, which means we need 40 between us, which has not been easy, as it's difficult to find 20 jobs in town that are hiring. And we don't have the money for the 60 mile drive to Vegas.

I counted up all our change yesterday, and it came to a total of $27.45. We desperately need some extra money, so I'm starting putting in 8-10 hours per day collecting cans off the roadside. So far, between the 2 hours we put in last night and the 3 I put in this morning, I've collected $9.14 ($8.64 in cans, one car battery and a nickel found on the roadside). Our late fees for rent are $10 a day and it costs me $2 in gas to get to a good spot to collect, so, we're about $2.84 short of the break even point (although I'm taking an "all or nothing" approach on the rent; I'm not paying the landlord everything I have only to end up broke AND homeless). I should make up the difference in my next excursion. My hope, at this point, is to raise up enough money that we can get one of those sleazy rent by the week motel rooms (it isn't much, but it's better than a homeless shelter). I can make about $50 a day at day labor, but can't work overtime, so I will try to put in 40 hours with one day labor place, and 15-20 with another. This should give us enough extra to move up in our living quarters by Christmas or shortly thereafter.

I'm hoping to find a generous soul in town willing to store our things until we can retrieve them. This way we don't go through the doubly devastating situation of losing everything we have. If we wind up unable to have internet access, I will attempt to update things at least weekly through library access.

We're still keeping a positive mental attitude, although it's very trying on the wife and kids.

One note to the reader: the next time someone tells them about the "milk and honey" lifestyle of the welfare system, please tell them they're full of shit for me, ok?

signing off,

Gideon MacLeish
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I know this sounds odd, but I think that you have made a lot of friends here.  Why not set up a paypal account available for people to send some "friend" money to to help you and your family out?
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It's a nice idea, but I can see the flames coming off of that one...lol.

Plus doesn't paypal need to tie to a bank account somewhere?
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Actually, on further review, it's not such a bad idea...I just will make sure not to make this a "beg blog".

But if anyone DOES want to contribute, I have set up an acount under the email: [email protected]. Please don't mistake this as a solicitation, it's just, as Karma suggested, an opportunity for someone to help if they wish to do so.
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Hang in there, buddy. You're one of the good guys! Is there something you can do with your writing there, that will give you more than subsistance wages ($50 per day)?

JW
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Gideon...As always my prayers are with you. I know you are going to overcome this temporary setback and very soon be back in a position to encourage others to do the same.
All the best!
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Gideon, 

I have a aunt that I remember as a kid living in a tent at a state park in southern Michigan for about a year with eight children.  She pulled out of it.  One of her kids is now a doctor, one is working as an IT person in a hospital, one is a HR person for an Automotive supplier, three are tradesman, one is an office person in a good sized company, and one is working general labor.  I know it sucks to be in this position.  But it's always important to have a good attitude and a positive outlook. 

You sound like your being resourceful and keeping a positive attitude.  Good luck to you.   

 

 

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gideon, im hoping something breaks right for you.   it just occured to me to offer a suggestion that might buy you a little more time.  i dont know if youve a library or bookstore within a reasonable distance, but if you do, it might be worth the time to find the relevant nolo press guide to tenant/landlord procedures for nevada.  its possible there are ways to delay the actual eviction proceding and buy yourself a little more time (legally).
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Gideon,

On the off chance that there's someone here reading this from around your neck of the woods - why not tell us what you'd be looking for (as Jay Walker said) and whereabouts would be handy to you? You never know

Good hunting,

danny
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How do you pay for internet by the way? Could you sell some of the stuff like your computer or pawn it to help feed the kids?
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Just until you get your feet back off course
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I think little_whip(was it her?) had invited you to move in with her folks some time back? What happened to that?
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I sent you an email to the email address that you listed above.
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How do you pay for internet by the way? Could you sell some of the stuff like your computer or pawn it to help feed the kids?


our internet payment's a bit overdue as well...I don't know their policy on when they shut it off. I can't sell the computer, as it's old. I picked it up for $20. As for food, we're ok on that.

I think little_whip(was it her?) had invited you to move in with her folks some time back? What happened to that?


We can't afford the cost of moving across the country to take her up on that, unfortunately.

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I know exactly where you are coming from there. We are just starting to crawl out of the situation ourselves, but with a few differences. We didn't qualify for welfare, so we've been kind of on our own as far as that goes. There are only a few things that I can suggest. Call churches. A lot of them either help people out or can refer you to people who do provide assistance to people in situations like yours. Recycling cans (which you are already doing helps) and you might be able to augment that by asking friends/neighbors to save their cans for you. A little door to door can collecting one day netted me almost $20 (but I hit up a college neighborhood after all of the drinking binges were over). I'm sure you are already using the internet as a jumping point for job searching, but usually places like gas stations, fast food joints and restaurants are almost always hiring. It's not the best job, but it gives you a little something while you are looking for something else, and usually places like that don't take it personally if you quit when you find a much better job. Good luck and I'll be praying for you.
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I'm sure you are already using the internet as a jumping point for job searching, but usually places like gas stations, fast food joints and restaurants are almost always hiring


The biggest problem is most fast food places won't hire me ("overqualified"), and many construction firms want 20 year olds that are faster and take more risks.

As for finding 40 jobs to apply for, apply EVERYWHERE. Even if they're not hiring, request an application and turn it in.


TANF requires that they be taking applications, and they do follow up on this. I tried asking at a few places that weren't hiring, they wouldn't even give me an application to fill in.

If I can hold off until the snowbirds return, I'm going to start advertising errand services in the RV parks.
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Bless your heart, Gideon. I can't even imagine how stressful this must be for you. My dad is a Language Arts teacher, and he spent a year unemployed a bit back . . . the school he had worked with for many years began replacing the more tenured teachers with new college grads in order to save money, and he ended up jobless. Even with the "teacher shortage crisis" it took him a year to find another teaching job. He had been teaching for quite a while and was certified in many areas, and thus too expensive to hire. My parents made it through the year with unemployment benefits (his were actually fairly decent since they were based on a certain percentage of his teaching income), some substitute teaching income, and a bit of help from family, but they had to leave their home and many belongings behind. It was a very painful year for them, and of course they didn't have children to be concerned with. I am just incredibly sorry that you are going through this.
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well, texas, "we're holding our own" (my favorite ironic choice of words; the last radio transmission of the "Edmund Fitzgerald"), but I've decided if I'm going down I'm going down swinging.

Once we get the whole thing squared away, though, I'm going to start looking into auditioning for "Jeopardy"...all this useless trivia (the last words of the Fitz, fer cryin' out loud?) HAS to be good for something....lol
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well, texas, "we're holding our own" (my favorite ironic choice of words; the last radio transmission of the "Edmund Fitzgerald"), but I've decided if I'm going down I'm going down swinging.

Once we get the whole thing squared away, though, I'm going to start looking into auditioning for "Jeopardy"...all this useless trivia (the last words of the Fitz, fer cryin' out loud?) HAS to be good for something....lol


At least you still have your sense of humor...keep it , it will come in handy in these times. I think you know many people have your back.
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33 But a Samaritan, as he journeyed, came to where he was; and when he saw him, he had compassion, 34 and went to him and bound up his wounds, pouring on oil and wine; then he set him on his own beast and brought him to an inn, and took care of him. 35 And the next day he took out two denarii and gave them to the innkeeper, saying, 'Take care of him; and whatever more you spend, I will repay you when I come back.'

Hey Gideon. I read some of your blog and I want to help. Just a short time ago I was thinking about how tough a time I was having. I think God has used you and your sitituation to remind me how good my life actually is right now. I have a job, a home, family, health, and peace of mind. I'm sending you some $$ via PayPal and I will try to send you some more next month. I'll be praying for you and your family as well.

21 And he said, "Naked I came from my mother's womb, and naked shall I return; the LORD gave, and the LORD has taken away; blessed be the name of the LORD." 22 In all this Job did not sin or charge God with wrong.

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Gideon, I'm sorry for what you and your family are going through right now. It's not going to be easy, as you know. You just have to take it one day at a time. My family and I could write a book on what we went through and are going through and now consider ourselves lucky that both my husband and I are currently working, even if it's living paycheck to paycheck. We went through six months of living in a weekly hotel too and we made it our home and as comfortable as we could for our children. My husband also had to work at one of those day labor places doing jobs that he never thought he would have to in order to bring money home to his family. Its terrible when you need the help from the system that's supposed to be there to help you when you need it and they are not or they make it so hard for you to get the help you seek. Just keep praying and having faith in God who will take you through this period in your life. He's carried us through so much and we're still here kicking. Kids are resilient, they'll adjust because they know mom and dad are doing their best and one day you will get over that mountain. I'll keep you in my prayers.
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i hope this works out for you...i also hope you are being honest...becuase there are a lot of sickos out there....also. about the being "over qualified" for a fast food job or gas station..a little bit of talking to a manager..explaing your situation and you would of least be hired as a entry level food cook or attendant...making 5-7 dollars a hour..I know thats not much but at least 200-250 a week...which is a start...its possible..explain ur situation
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..a little bit of talking to a manager..explaing your situation and you would of least be hired as a entry level food cook or attendant...making 5-7 dollars a hour..I know thats not much but at least 200-250 a week...which is a start...its possible..explain ur situation


That assumes you get to talk to the manager. I'll take whatever I can make, trying to get into the donut shop at minimum wage at present.
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Gideon: You know, waiters and waitresses for The Big Texan in Amarillo, TX sometimes make as much as $70K/yr with tips and all . . . go Texas, baby! You'll never regret it!



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Sorry to hear about your plight. If you do end up sleeping in your vehicle, I suggest strongly that you check to see what the local ordinances are.

Here in California, especially the OC, there are a lot of people living out of shopping carts, including entire families, who tried living out of a vehicle - or at least sleeping in one. In most cities hereabout, it's illegal, and the cops will arrest you and then have the vehicle towed. They particularly like to do this on Fridays, as you won't get out until your hearing on Monday, and by then the special city-approved tow yard has amassed fees which will be more than you can likely pay. And they go on amassing these fees, as in $75/day, with more every day, which is why most of these people lose their vehicle, and usually whatever is in it, and end up with the clothes on their backs, with whatever meager cash gone to pay the original fines.

Good luck on finding work. I may soon be joining you among the ranks of unemployed.

You might check out the local Catholic Worker Community, if there is one. In the U.S., they kind of specialize in feeding the homeless and finding shelter for families and jobs if possible. They don't discriminate on religion, either. A lot of atheists actually volunteer there.