My Blog is Turning into an Issue of Cosmo....

All in good clean fun.

from JoeUser Forums
Ok here's the scenerio:

On my birthday a few weeks ago, one of my good (virginal) friends hooked up with one of my boyfriend's (not so virginal) good friends...They were both into hanging out and getting some action...no harm here, right?

According to my boyfriend's friend it was all, "In good clean fun".

Well, if there was no harm in this so-called "good clean fun", then I wouldn't be posting the article.

Since my birthday she has been with him five times (not having actual intercourse--but you get the point), and he's gotten "his rocks off" every single time. You think one would recipricate the favor, right?? WRONG!! He has not made one single effort to return his so-called "favors". We were just discussing it and we think it was because she won't sleep with him.

Is this wrong?? I mean she's obviously not leading him on because the job is getting done. Shouldn't she be getting her piece too??

What do you guys think??
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Reply #1 from JoeUser Forums Top
As a girl, I find this outrageous!

However, if your friend is of little experience, perhaps she isn't really pushing the point that he needs to reciprocate. This certainly doesn't make it her fault - he is obviously a selfish prat - but we all know what men are like once they've come. Chances of getting them to do anything other than roll over and go to sleep are slim. And many guys will avoid putting in any work if possible (note - I say many, not all - no abuse guys, please!)

Sadly, if he's getting his jollies without any effort he's not going to change. Tell her to buy a vibrator and leave him to his own devises!
Reply #2 from JoeUser Forums Top
Haha! I will suggest the vib to her!! lol.

I think it is totally unfair of him to do this...i mean just because she's a virgin does not mean she is non sexual...you know???
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Reply #3 from JoeUser Forums Top
Yeah - I love that stigma! 'Well you haven't had sex, therefore you know nothing about the joys of all things sexual so we'll ignore you. But feel free to indulge me!'

It is incredibly unfair. She should just prick tease him to get her own back! (Actually, I don't condone that sort of behaviour, but it would be gratifying - if not in a sexual way )
Reply #4 from JoeUser Forums Top
We're actually in the process of finding a very tactful way to do that
Reply #6 from JoeUser Forums Top
It sounds like his attitude is something along the lines of "Milk it for all it's worth, then move on." If that's the case, it's time for the milking to stop. But it could also be that he merely needs a good slap upside the head to be reminded that it's not a one-way street and he needs to make a contribution too. And it would be good to inform him that he owes her 5.

I agree with Flooz, a lot of guys will take the path of least effort. (I am not one of those, though; I believe in a fair trade.)
Reply #7 from JoeUser Forums Top
I agree...he totally owes it to her!!
Reply #8 from JoeUser Forums Top
citahellion...lol...i told my friend what you said and she wants to know if you are from the indiana area
Reply #9 from JoeUser Forums Top
I am from Maryland originally and now reside in Minnesota. I've passed through Indiana a number of times, though.
Reply #10 from JoeUser Forums Top
hehe--she's moving to Muncie to go to grad school at Ball State. I should give you her e mail--lol.
Reply #11 from JoeUser Forums Top
alison!! i made my blog!! hahaha

anyways, for anyone else who might be reading this, i'm the girl in question here...just call me 0 for 5!! haha