WHAT DOES A RAPIST LOOK FOR?

A group of rapists and date rapists in prison were interviewed on what they look for in a potential victim.

The first thing men look for in a potential victim is hairstyle. They are most likely to go after a woman with a ponytail, bun, braid or other hairstyle that can easily be grabbed. They are also likely to go after a woman with long hair. Women with short hair are not common targets.

The second thing men look for is clothing. They will look for women whose clothing is easy to remove quickly. Many of them carry scissors around to cut clothing.

They also look for women on their cell phone, searching through their purse or doing other activities while walking because they are off guard and can easily be overpowered.

The time of day men are most likely to attack and rape a woman is in the early morning, between 5 and 8:30 a.m. The number one place women are abducted from/attacked at is grocery store parking lots. Number two is office parking lots/garages. Number three is public restrooms.

The thing about these men is that they are looking to grab woman and quickly move her to a second location where they don't have to worry about getting caught. If you put up any kind of a fight at all, they get discouraged because it only takes a minute or two for them to realize that going after you isn't worth it because it will be time-consuming. These men said they would not pick on women who have umbrellas, or other similar objects that can be used from a distance, in their hands.

Rapists look for an EASY target. If you carry pepper spray yelling I HAVE PEPPER SPRAY and holding it out will be a deterrent. Always go for the groin. You might think that you'll anger the guy and make him want to hurt you more, but rapists want a woman who will not cause a lot of trouble. Start causing trouble, and he's out of there.

Always be aware of your Surroundings, take someone with you if you can and if you see any odd behavior, don't dismiss it, go with your instincts. You may feel a little silly at the time, but you'd feel much worse if the guy really was trouble.
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Thats a very useful article....
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Actually, this has been debunked by Snopes http://www.snopes.com/inboxer/outrage/rape.htm



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Mavin, you have no idea what you're talking about.


Some rapists like the fight.  Some of them look for it because it makes them feel even more powerful...and ultimately, that's what rape's all about - power.


Women automatically assume that if they hit a guy in the jewels he'll curl up in pain and leave them alone...again, wrong. 


Stick to scripture, Marvin, and leave the anti-rape advice to the experts.

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Women automatically assume that if they hit a guy in the jewels he'll curl up in pain and leave them alone...again, wrong.


Excellent poind, dharma.

Actually, the thing is, curling up in pain is only the response when adrenaline is not a factor. When adrenaline is a factor (as it is for a rapist who has selected their prey), getting kicked in the jewels only INCREASES aggressive response (as many a football player who's played without a cup will attest).
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Good point dharmgrl.........there are some rapists who behave as you describe. my article described only a portion of the many rapists out there.
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I'd say that the only trait that applies to all rapists is that they deserve a swift painful death and not quick "rehab" and sending them back out on the streets.
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my article described only a portion of the many rapists out there.


Actually, one of the only things the "article" got right was that women who are distracted and not aware of their surroundings are more likely to be victims of attacks.

However, as I've said before, the information contained in this Chain E-mail has been debunked...there is no evidence about hair length or clothing that law enforcement would reasonably say makes women a target, and statistic don't support the parking lot theory.

However, even though the information isn't totally accurate--it's nice to see you changing tacts Marvin and trying to post something helpful and beneficial.
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However, even though the information isn't totally accurate--it's nice to see you changing tacts Marvin and trying to post something helpful and beneficial


Yes, Marvin, I'm sorry.  I meant to say that....and I'm also sorry for saying that you don't know what you're talking about when you were only trying to help.


 

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i guess the lesson here might be....dont believe everything you hear in prison.

according to dept of justice national crime victimization survey statistics for 2000:

roughly 66% of rape victims know their assailant.

nearly 48% of victims are raped by a friend or acquaintance; 30% by a stranger; 16% by an intimate; 2% by another relative; and in 4% of cases the relationship is unknown.

according to the us dept of justice bureau of justice statistics (sex offenses and offenders) for 1997:

close to 40% of all rapes take place in the victim's home...20% in the home of a neighbor, friend or relative...10% occur outside, away from home...about 9% in parking garages.

43% of rapes are committed from 6 pm to midnight. 24% between midnight to 6am and 33% between 6am to 6pm.

roughly 3% of american men are victims of rape or attempted rape. according to the national crime victimization survey for 2002, 1 of every 8 reports of rape or attempted rape were filed by men.