I'm a child molester.

*raises an eyebrow*

Molester? No.

You're too nice to have any bad intentions.

Much like those girls Brianna, Cristina, and Benahir.

Only you're not as annoying.

Dharma, people are bitches... it makes me so angry reading your blogs about these insane idiots. Do you really know why they want you in trouble or pissed off so badly? What are they smoking? Seriously... oh, it makes me angry just reading this... lol

Okay, I'm not helping any. Just don't let it get out of control that someone brings a golf club over there and does real damage, you know? I'm ignorant; What exactly is a 'Cease and Desist' letter?

Hopin' things get better for ya!

~Sarah

crap, sorry for the double-post.. delete this and one if you will. thanks

~Sarah

A C&D is a letter from an attorney demanding that they stop (cease) telling lies about me and don't do it again (desist) or else I'll file civil suit against them.

I'm going to talk to the active duty people involved tomorrow.  I'm not going to get anywhere talking to silly bitches.

They don't care for me; mainly because I said their 'gang' was stupid and pathetic and they all needed to grow the fuck up.  Also because I asked their kids to stay out of my yard because I had seeded it, and asked them to keep their kids out of my house and gargage (they had been letting themselves in).  One of the 'gang' got asked to leave military housing because she was causing so much trouble for the neighbors....and the way things are going it's not going to take much more before the others are asked to leave also.

I'm done with this, Sarah.  Tha gloves are off, and I'm coming out of my corner swinging.

 

it doesnt happen often that im rendered speechless, but ive been just sitting here for the past couple minutes rereading this over and over. it didnt make any sense the first time and now its making less than that. what makes this all the more outrageous in my view is knowing how effectively you checked out that pedo-decoy site and how much energy and effort you subsequently put into framing the problem and providing what seemed to me very sensible, solid information to help keep kids safe from molestors. i hope the person responsible for this gets the help she needs--and quickly.

I spent part of my time as a child living on base. It seemed that wives were always involved slandering someone. I can only imagine they have failed to follow the directions plainly posted on the anti-psychotic medications. In order for them to work, you have to take them every day. Possibly a reminder would help the situation, otherwise, I suggest stun guns and duct tape. Simple problems require simply solutions, what could be simpler?

They're silly little girls who think their poo doesn't smell and who have nothing better to do with their time than think of ways to fuck with the people that don't fit in or don't want anything to do with their stupid fucking gang, Kingbee.  They don't know me; I keep to myself because I've seen and heard the way they talk about other people and I don't want to be a part of it....and because I keep to myself they have to make things up about me.  It's high school bullying, but the thing they don't seem to get is that this isn't high school anymore.  The consequences for their actions are going to be more than just a visit to the principal's office. 

And this time, there will be consequences.

Johnny...you 'get it', and I'm glad of that.

 

Oh my!! The sooner you can get out of there, the better. The whole thing just gets more "junior high" all the time. I can just imagine how ticked off you must be right about now....I'd be boiling over for sure. Idiots!!!

That's awful! Seriously, some people do not grow up. It's like all their lives, they are living in a high school frame of mind. Do they not realize how serious a charge it is and how low it is?

Do they not realize how serious a charge it is and how low it is?

I'd like to be able to say that no, they don't...but I honestly think that they do and that they just don't care.

Perhaps the threat of legal action will make them care.  That's the only thing I can think of to do at this point.

Teresa, I talked to Lonesome about it, and in the event that we get re-stationed here, we're looking for a house off base.  I'm not living like this anymore.

Take them down dharma m' girl!!! Dont let people like that get you down. Theyre jerks and you are one of the sweetest people (though a bit twisted at times) i know here in JU, dont worry about it too much they will get what they deserve.

I know a good hitman, if you need one.

-- B

WTF. Dharma, I've admired your restraint in this situation thus far, but I'd say those days are over. Clearly these "women" (should that read "little girls") can't play nice so you shouldn't either. Good luck sorting this mess out, you know where to reach me if you need anything! (I'll keep my fingers crossed that you don't get restationed there!!).

Yep, Shades, you're right.  The days of playing nice are over.  Anything they throw at me now is going right back at them. 

Edmund - thanks.  I needed to hear that!

Froggy - Hopefully it won't come to that!

Vengence is mine, sayeth Dharma.

I always wondered where those petty bitchy high school girls end up. Now I know.

I always wondered where those petty bitchy high school girls end up. Now I know.

Yeah, they're all living next to me.   I think I'm a magnet for them or something.

Now I know


too funny!

Dharma, I honestly don't know what to say. Like kingbee I am entirely speechless. That people would even think to say something so horrible about you blows my mind. But that they would then actually start saying it???

I am dumbfounded.

I agree with you and those who have posted. No restraint. Go for the jugular. With truth on your side you will prevail. Know that (and I am sure you already to) there are many, many of us here who are standing beside you (some of us with big, big baseball bats!). You are just too good a person for someone to say such terrible things. I will send all the positive vibes your way I can.

Dev, I'm just as speechless.

Thank you, what you said means a lot to me.  It's just hard, dig?  Being without my husband, alone here with the kids...having friends like you all makes a difference, it makes me feel not quite so isolated.

I wonder sometimes if they'd be pulling this crap were Lonesome here.

Geez. It's a good thing you're being transferred soon. Some people need to get a damn life.

The irony is that real molesters don't get harrassed like that.  They usually live in blissful anonymity.  I wish I were as shocked as others but I have been witness to some jaw dropping slander in my day.  I am just glad to hear that you aren't going to take it.

It is weird how much power these bitchy twits think they have when they form groups.  They would never pull that shit individually but somehow congregating gives them more courage.  I am sure you will be successful in putting them back in their holes where they belong.

You go cyber-sis!

Lawsuit for slander! Being accused of child molestation is slander, and you could really hand their asses to them with a lawsuit (and maybe make some money off it too!).

Well, I'll give you a bit of advice...if the courts can't handle it...then a baseball bat, brass knuckles, or a tire iron can....

They would never pull that shit individually but somehow congregating gives them more courage.

They all sit around concocting ways to fuck with people..I've seen them do it. One of them comes up with an idea, and before you know it it's the gospel truth...they have a knack of confusing reality with fiction. They did it to someone else on the street, and it got taken to their husband's commanders...even the base commander knew about it. They all got warned that this behaviour wasn't going to be tolerated...so my going to First Sergeant's and Commander's with this latest allegation might be the straw that breaks the camel's back. I wasn't going to go that route, but the more I think about it, the more I want to. A lawsuit isn't something that I'm terribly interested in...I have enough stress at the moment without going through that. If I did file suit I'd have to return to SD for the court date, and depending on where we go that might not be practical. That's why I'd rather have a 'Cease and Desist' letter sent...it's kind of a warning shot that says "cut it out, and cut it out now, or we'll sue." Brass knuckles et al aren't going to happen. Right now I have the law on my side, and I'm not going to do anything to jeopardize that. As long as I keep all the action legit and above board I'll win.

Teresa, I talked to Lonesome about it, and in the event that we get re-stationed here, we're looking for a house off base. I'm not living like this anymore.

That's good news! Hopefully it won't come to that, though, and you'll have better neighbors at your next assignment.