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Church learns vet was a sinner, cancels memorial

Church learns vet was a sinner, cancels memorial

After all only perfect people can have their funerals here

http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/20221295/?GT1=10252
For those who believe that the Bible is the inspired word of God, there is no doubt that homosexuality is a sin.
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But where do we get off thinking that it is the unforgivable sin?? If you read carefully, there are a lot of other things listed as just as horrible: lying, breaking a promise, being greedy, cheating, and speaking falsely about others. How many of us can claim we’ve never done any of those??

Heaven forbid that the church be associated with sinners!
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Reply #26 Top
those of you who believe homosexuality is a choice might want to consider jesus' attitude towards the samaritans. were they a group by choice or by nature?

either way, jesus--unlike the righteous jews of the day--musta not had much of a problem with them.

I could right now choose to go out and have sex with another man. I'm not going to, but I could. Would that make me a homosexual


bisexual for sure. please don't take that as a condemnation or an insult because i don't intend it to be.

i can tell you for a fact--and no, i'm not lying, not even to get into someone's pants charlessci--i couldn't do it in any circumstance (and it ain't as if i haven't found myself in 'any circumstance' before so it ain't purely hypothetical).
Reply #27 Top
self-important and narcissistic to convince ourselves that any omnescient, omnipresent, infinite and eternal Deity worth recognizing, let alone worshipping, gives a single hair on a rat's ass who we screw.


Why? If he made us, why shouldn't he care about us? If he cares about us, wouldn't he care that we do what is best for us?
Reply #28 Top
unless human beings today differ greatly from those of our ancestors living in isreal roughly 2000 years ago, it seems likely 10% of jesus' audiences might have been gay--thus giving him plenty of opportunity to reach out, condemn or acknowledge them however he chose to do so.

by all four accounts, he had no problem offering an opinion on a variety of important issues. none of those had to do with homosexuality. divorce is a whole other story. (yet most christians--including catholics--have no problem finding loopholes there.)


Jesus did not directly address many things such as prostitution or pornography. Does his silence means that he condones these activities?
Reply #29 Top
Thanks Little-whip for the other article reference. It does put a slightly different spin on things. If the family was insisting that the objectionable photos be on display at the funeral, that would obviously put the church in a bind and it is understandable that they would back out.

In the first article the family claimed that the church knew from the outset about Sinclair practicing homosexuality, this article seems to give more evidence that this was not the case.

"We could have reached a compromise," Mrs. Bowers, Sinclair’s mother, said. "That was never attempted."


It seems to me that the church did attempt to compromise by offering to make other arrangements. Why would the family want to have the funeral in a place that did not accept what they apparently accepted about their loved one?
Reply #30 Top
"bisexual for sure. please don't take that as a condemnation or an insult because i don't intend it to be."

Taken as you meant it, as well as I can fathom it. And I've never actually tried that. And, I most likely won't be. So, maybe I in fact could NOT have sex with another man. I don't know, and I don't really care.
Reply #31 Top
first of all, i absolutely concur with gideon's take:

Jesus was FAR more concerned with our being compassionate to our fellow man than anything else


Jesus did not directly address many things such as prostitution or pornography


perhaps--if, in fact, one mary outta the several usual suspects was a pro--his interaction with her (not to mention members of that despicable community of ill-repute: the samaritans) speaks volumes, albeit indirectly?

as far as porn goes, before the invention of the printing press one either had to be wealthy enough to commission unique works of erotic art or gifted with sufficient imagination to find grafitti or clay tablets embossed with naked stick figures not merely of interest, but prurient interest to boot.
Reply #32 Top
I think a lot are missing the point. It's not about being or not being homosexual. We know he had every right to be, and practice homosexuality to his heart's content. The question here is, should an organization (in this case the High Point Church) have the right to decide what they will and won't agree to but their name to?

True, as some people pointed out, there are most likely other sins just as grevious as homosexuality that were overlooked by High Point church officials. However, how many of the families of adutrous men wanted photos and video of the man kissing his mistress?

The family wasn't happy with just a service for their deceased son, brother, friend...etc... They weren't happy unless his homosexuality could be celebrated also.
Reply #33 Top
as far as porn goes, before the invention of the printing press one either had to be wealthy enough to commission unique works of erotic art or gifted with sufficient imagination to find grafitti or clay tablets embossed with naked stick figures not merely of interest, but prurient interest to boot.


There were herms and erotic statues that the Romans and the Greeks would have brought with them into Syria, so presumably it wasn't considered that big a deal.
Reply #34 Top
Mary Magdalene was not a prostitute. Read the book before you argue it.


i didn't say she was.

one mary outta the several usual suspects


there were at least two other marys hangin around besides the redhead and mom.
Reply #35 Top
there were at least two other marys hangin around besides the redhead and mom.


One of those mary's wrote a gospel, too. It's on the cutting room floor if anyone's interested.
Reply #36 Top
We've got all the Lost Gospels (that are in print, at least, the Vatican no doubt sits on countless others, keeping them safely out of view) on our bookshelf, and we've read every one of them. I wonder how many 'Christians' can say the same?


I think most truly studious Christians can, LW. At least the ones I've met.

It's like a discussion I had with an evangelical and a third party regarding the Book of Mormon. The evangelical argued the individual, who was searching, should not read the Book of Mormon because it was a pack of lies. I have a different stance, one that I brought up. While my feelings towards this particular faith are well known, I encouraged the individual to read the Book of Mormon and decide for himself. It either is the Word of God, or it isn't. And if it isn't, he has lost nothing, but if it is, he has gained everything.
Reply #37 Top
at worse the people on this land(the Americas) would have been isolated from the CHOSEN PEOPLE and their blessings for 6000 years. if you were god and wanted as many of your children/creations to return to you are you going to allow this group of people no contact at all with you and your laws.


you see i knew the book of Mormon was the word of god before i read it. remember the man who wrote it did not finish 8Th grade and he was 18 when he translated it.
Reply #38 Top
the man who wrote it did not finish 8Th grade


so you're sayin god didn't graduate hs?
Reply #39 Top
so you're sayin god didn't graduate hs?


remember the man who wrote it did not finish 8Th grade and he was 18 when he translated it.


1 i wrote it that way on purpose.

2 no god did not finish 8th grade on earth.

3 in fact god didn't go to 1st grade on earth.

Reply #40 Top
in fact god didn't go to 1st grade on earth


how'd he learn not only to write, but to emboss??
Reply #41 Top
on earth


never mind; i realize now you qualified your answer to make me appear more ignorant than i do without help.

so where did he attend school? shiva's planet?
Reply #42 Top
No, Kolob.

(walks away, whistling!)
Reply #43 Top
G-d Taught himself, and gave himself passing grades, the entire school made up entirely of Cherub, and angels help a graduation party for G-d, the principal who also was G-d, gave G-d his degree. the name of the school was "natural high school"
Reply #44 Top
i don't know but since he went through what we are going through then i would assume he went to school on whatever planet it was he was born on. and it may have been called earth also.
Reply #45 Top
Big questions, straniera, and while they're honestly asked, it's not a topic I care to get into here because in my opinion, debating anything of this nature with Christians is a waste of time, yours and mine both.


Thank you for being respectful and courteous. I look forward to getting to know you further.

how'd he learn not only to write, but to emboss??

so where did he attend school? shiva's planet?

No, Kolob.


Now you guys have really lost me...
Reply #46 Top

To deliberately ignite debate over homosexuality using an individuals unfortunate death is not the brightest idea on the block.

Agreed.

And I find it funny that a church only wants saints.  It is clear he was not a practticing homosexual at this time.  Where better for a "sinner" to go but a church for repentance?  Or is that reserved for saints only?

As for the photo montage, they could have diplomatically told the family no, and gone on with the service.  There is no sin in acknowledging a homosexual.  There is not even sin in being one.  The sin (accoring to the ones so incllined to categorize it as such) is in the actions, not the definitions.  And dead men are short on actions.

The church was very much in its rights, but as Ock points out, they did it in the worst possible manner.

Reply #47 Top
LW posts:
The first reference to homosexuality in Scripture is in the infamous account of the destruction of Sodom and Gomorrah in Genesis 19.


Gideon posts: Although homosexuality was a part of the culture at Sodom and Gomorrah, it is not the primary reason why it was destroyed. Ezekial 16:49-51 spells it out pretty nicely.


This is a good find, Gideon. Ezekiel rounds out the abominations by placing stress on avoiding of all things...idleness.

For those of you who might be interested V. 44-58 are an allegory of members of a family meant to draw a comparison between Jerusalem's conduct and that of Samaria (Israel) and Sodom, who in this text are depicted as 3 sisters. Samaria was invaded by Assyria in punishment for her idolatry 2Kings17:5, 17. and long before that, Sodom was engulfed by fire becasue of her perverse conduct (Gen.19:23-29). BUt Jerusalem has behaved far worse than her sisters and therefore must pay the price for her sins.

Ezekiel is using these allegories to make the point that Jerusalem's sins are particularly greivous becasue they are committed by the most beloved city of the Lord God.

V. 49 points to the root causes of Sodom's vices: an easy life of luxury, careless of the needs of others, led her onto worse sins yet. so , therefore, the ascetical tradition's stress on the avoidance of idleness as a means to preserve virtue.

This is the way to keep all aspects of the Sixth Commandment of GOd. "In the first place, we must flee from idleness, for, as Ezekiel wrote, it was through idleness that the people of Sodom succombed and fell into the shameful evil of consupiscence" 3, 7, 10.
Reply #48 Top
Kingbee posts:
divorce is a whole other story. (yet most christians--including catholics--have no problem finding loopholes there.)


Yes, I'll acknowledge this as well....

but this is getting off the topic of the initial article.
Reply #49 Top
self-important and narcissistic to convince ourselves that any omnescient, omnipresent, infinite and eternal Deity worth recognizing, let alone worshipping, gives a single hair on a rat's ass who we screw.


I think He does. He condemned sexual immorality. Check out the Ten Commandments, specifically the Sixth, "You shalt not commit adultery". Here according to the Catechism of the CC, the Sixth Commandment condemns acts of lust, masturbation, fornication, pornography, prostitition, rape, incest, adultery, polygamy, divorce and homosexuality.
Reply #50 Top
my opinion is that the church should have buried the man the way he wanted sense they said they would. and having learned from this not allow any more videos to be played again.