Will she ever love me back? Will she understand my love for her?
My hearts pure for her, it weeps. She dosn't, she dosn't see it, she dosn't know what to think but to be afraid of it?
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I have a situation and I think I am dealing with it okay, but i'm scared i'm going to lose her completely because she 'says' she dosn't love me, but she dosn't want me out of her life. I've tried to leave to test our hearts between the 2 of us, but she won't let go of me, internally, in herself (because I thought I meant nothing to her). I know there's something there, because recently, the way I act, does affect her.
Here's the situation summarized:
Me, 25 (In August)
Her, 22 (2 days ago)
I've known her for almost 2 1/2 Years.
I've asked her out almost 4 times.
I stayed being a 'friend' to her, and she is my greatest friend, but overtime, I care for her more then anything in this world. (I started with care, but it grew)
I see her suffer internally and I can't stand sitting there watching her go through something I can cure.
She does so much in life and my heart wants to love her for the rest of her life. I can't love anyone else, not the way I love her. She had an on/off boyfriend for almost 4 years, but recently, she can't stand him. She's see's what I do and judges him from it, she see's he can't do anything that I've already shown and done for her.
She see's what I can do, but I don't know if she wants me.
She's a virgin and believes in morals and values, but the rest of the world doesn't believe in it in that much depth.
I myself, hard enough to say and is embarrassing, am pure myself. I've had urges in the past, but it never worked out (was it a work of god preventing me?).
She is attractive externally (every guy wants), but I'm purely attractive to her internally. I myself, maybe attractive from the outside, but when I talk to her, she listen's to me and loves talking to me, slowly and calmly (giggles here and there). Is she attracted to me internally?
We've been on many activities together, but recently since she knows how I feel for her, she still talks to me, but seeing me, is limited (is she shy of me or does she not want me?)
I care for her family completely (All girls, dads on business abroad). I wish her family knew exactly what they meant to me.
In the past, I've had 2 girlfriends and they kept on destroying my heart even though I showed them nothing but good. I did love them, but I had no 'backup' reason of loving them. There was nothing there to show and prove, it was plain love. My 2 ex's, still do want me now, but my hearts moved along. Now I love this girl with real reason, I couldn't be with anyone else, not the way she is.
She's like Cinderella and she's looking for her prince. I want to be that prince to her, because I see what she does, it makes me love her more then anything else in this materialistic world.
The problem: She loves communicating with me. I love communicating with her. We talk all the time. We use to see each other all the time, but now it's limited. She tries to control the way I feel for her. I love her, but she always shows me nothing back.
My question is, Can she or will she ever love me back so I can start a life with her? I would marry her if her heart actually knew what I have for her. She hasn't experienced proper love. She thought her boyfriend 'was the one', but now what's going on between them, it maybe a permanent breakup (i'm not wishing for it, it just happened, i'm never cruel).
All I can say is if she does ever love me back, I'd turn into Superman for her (just for you to have a visual). Life would actually have a purpose. I'd be the happiest husband in the world. I will love, care, cherish her until our time ends (and the afterlife)
Also, her parents want her to marry someone (almost like an arranged marriage, but it's not). I can't stand to watch it. It kills me internally. She doesn't feel like it herself (it's forced upon and it almost looks like to me, "look! My daughters for-sale!"
), but for her family, she's into helping them because she loves them soo much (which I cherish and adore, I wish she would do the same for my own one day).
I can barely work or concentrate on anything recently, I can't stop thinking about her and I even fall asleep in the daytime with thoughts about her. I love her and want take care of her for the rest.. of.. my.. life.. I love her to death. I'd do anything for her, completely..
Any suggestions would be most greatful. Thank You. [email protected]
Here's the situation summarized:
Me, 25 (In August)
Her, 22 (2 days ago)
I've known her for almost 2 1/2 Years.
I've asked her out almost 4 times.
I stayed being a 'friend' to her, and she is my greatest friend, but overtime, I care for her more then anything in this world. (I started with care, but it grew)
I see her suffer internally and I can't stand sitting there watching her go through something I can cure.
She does so much in life and my heart wants to love her for the rest of her life. I can't love anyone else, not the way I love her. She had an on/off boyfriend for almost 4 years, but recently, she can't stand him. She's see's what I do and judges him from it, she see's he can't do anything that I've already shown and done for her.
She see's what I can do, but I don't know if she wants me.
She's a virgin and believes in morals and values, but the rest of the world doesn't believe in it in that much depth.
I myself, hard enough to say and is embarrassing, am pure myself. I've had urges in the past, but it never worked out (was it a work of god preventing me?).
She is attractive externally (every guy wants), but I'm purely attractive to her internally. I myself, maybe attractive from the outside, but when I talk to her, she listen's to me and loves talking to me, slowly and calmly (giggles here and there). Is she attracted to me internally?
We've been on many activities together, but recently since she knows how I feel for her, she still talks to me, but seeing me, is limited (is she shy of me or does she not want me?)
I care for her family completely (All girls, dads on business abroad). I wish her family knew exactly what they meant to me.
In the past, I've had 2 girlfriends and they kept on destroying my heart even though I showed them nothing but good. I did love them, but I had no 'backup' reason of loving them. There was nothing there to show and prove, it was plain love. My 2 ex's, still do want me now, but my hearts moved along. Now I love this girl with real reason, I couldn't be with anyone else, not the way she is.
She's like Cinderella and she's looking for her prince. I want to be that prince to her, because I see what she does, it makes me love her more then anything else in this materialistic world.
The problem: She loves communicating with me. I love communicating with her. We talk all the time. We use to see each other all the time, but now it's limited. She tries to control the way I feel for her. I love her, but she always shows me nothing back.
My question is, Can she or will she ever love me back so I can start a life with her? I would marry her if her heart actually knew what I have for her. She hasn't experienced proper love. She thought her boyfriend 'was the one', but now what's going on between them, it maybe a permanent breakup (i'm not wishing for it, it just happened, i'm never cruel).
All I can say is if she does ever love me back, I'd turn into Superman for her (just for you to have a visual). Life would actually have a purpose. I'd be the happiest husband in the world. I will love, care, cherish her until our time ends (and the afterlife)
Also, her parents want her to marry someone (almost like an arranged marriage, but it's not). I can't stand to watch it. It kills me internally. She doesn't feel like it herself (it's forced upon and it almost looks like to me, "look! My daughters for-sale!"
), but for her family, she's into helping them because she loves them soo much (which I cherish and adore, I wish she would do the same for my own one day). I can barely work or concentrate on anything recently, I can't stop thinking about her and I even fall asleep in the daytime with thoughts about her. I love her and want take care of her for the rest.. of.. my.. life.. I love her to death. I'd do anything for her, completely..
Any suggestions would be most greatful. Thank You. [email protected]