I am a Mormon, and also a Veteran. I agree that God comes first.
What I find most interesting, though, is the venom so many folks have for us - Mormons. There is this pervasive idea that we are not "real" christians, and that we believe in a 'different" Jesus Christ. While we may have some basic doctrinal differences (we believe that God still has things to say to mankind, for example). But what I find most contradictory, and this string is the perfect example, I believe that the gospel of Jesus Christ is a doctrine of service, wether it be service to our neighbors, our enemies (anyone remember 'turning the other cheek'?) or our country.
Lets not forget that, after recieving the Ten Commandments, Moses led his own army through the desert for 40 years! Back in the day, God and Country were not mutually exclusive concepts. God and Country were the same thing, and I think it would not be innapropriate to include the concept 'Family' into God and Country.
For Mormons, we have a concept called Zion, to which we aspire. The definition of Zion means "a people of one heart, and one mind", where there is "no rich, and no poor". We believe that, through service to one another, including our enemies, we can create this world. Crazy, no? What an awful thing to think about - that we can actually improve the socio-economic landscape by willingly helping each other.