I'm too lazy for that

from JoeUser Forums
And by "that" I mean getting in a relationship again. It's just too much hassle. Dont get me wrong i'm still a social butterfly and i enjoy meeting new people. I just dont want to be with someone.

I dont know if it's just the hassle thing, but I am really not interested at ALL. Especially when i see the guys here *ugh*. Maybe it's a french thing i dont know but it's too straight forward and i just find it rude when a guy checks you out smiles a little and then dares to come and tell you 'so what are doing later tonite?' with a raised eyebrow that screams TROUBLE. Maybe I just attract jerks.

Maybe it's just me. But whenever I see a potential boyfriend I find all sorts of excuses like: he's too short or his teeth are not straight or he's too old or too young or he sounds like a total idiot, etc, etc. And I end up never calling any of them. Luckily my friends are not desperate. They kinda know that this sort of things come in due time and they've let me know that if I really want to meet someone new they'd introduce me to some nice guys, hehe. Later.

I think I'm scared too, that it'd be a fiasco again or that it'd actually workout. I dont know. I'm surprised with myself though. For as long as I remembered I always wanted to be in a couple. I always dreamed of how my 'grown up' life would be like and a man was always in the plans.

I suppose I'm growing up. And I have to be by myself to find myself. That sounds good. I like it :)
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Reply #1 from JoeUser Forums Top
And you know what will happen? You will find yourself with more offers than you've ever had. You know the most attractive person to others are those who seem most comfortable and happy with their situation.

I'm sure there are some new loves on the horizon...
Reply #2 from JoeUser Forums Top
There are probably some new loves on the horizon but i'm not pressuring myself to getting one ASAP unlike some girls I know.

**Out of topic, i just wanted to thank you again for the songs, they're awesome!!! My favorite is Everything Happens, i love the beat! **
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Reply #3 from JoeUser Forums Top
Sometimes it is best to let things happen as they happen. At least then you know whatever happens is genuine.

I'm really glad you like the songs. Everything Happens is going to be our first single.
Reply #4 from JoeUser Forums Top
Even if you weren't 'lazy' it's still okay to be single. Plus I think when a female is pursuing a relationship is when they meet a bunch of jerks.

In my experience the best relationships have been the ones you find when you're NOT looking for anything or anyone.

I say you know yourself better than anybody else so just follow your heart (or your head) and enjoy life as it comes.
Reply #5 from JoeUser Forums Top

**Out of topic, i just wanted to thank you again for the songs, they're awesome!!! My favorite is Everything Happens, i love the beat! **

I thought you would like him.  He is good.

As for the topic, It has been less than a year.  For a child, a year is a long time.  For an adult, a year is not very long.  You are still in recovery, and yes, you need time to find yourself.  You are doing well to not be jumping back into a relationship so soon.

Besides, wait a couple of years, and I will introduce you to my son!

Reply #6 from JoeUser Forums Top
Maso:
Sometimes it is best to let things happen as they happen. At least then you know whatever happens is genuine.

I agree with that, one day my prince will come... lol!
Everything Happens is going to be our first single.

I'm sure it'll be a hit! Dont forget me when you're famous and you ride exclusively in limousines, hehe!

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Thanks for the comment,
In my experience the best relationships have been the ones you find when you're NOT looking for anything or anyone.

I'll have to second that, funny (or weird) but true!

Dr.Guy:
Yeah he's really talented. He's going to be a superstar in no time
As for the topic, It has been less than a year. For a child, a year is a long time. For an adult, a year is not very long. You are still in recovery, and yes, you need time to find yourself. You are doing well to not be jumping back into a relationship so soon

As much as i'd love to say i'm mended I'm not. I still think of him alot you know. I wonder how he is, and how he's doing, and who he's hanging out with. But I know in my heart of hearts that it's over and that I need to move on.
Besides, wait a couple of years, and I will introduce you to my son!

Hehe, If he's as nice as his Dad then why not?

Reply #7 from JoeUser Forums Top

Besides, wait a couple of years, and I will introduce you to my son!

Hehe, If he's as nice as his Dad then why not?

Nah!  he is actually really nice.  Not like his old man who is a nasty cuss!

Reply #8 from JoeUser Forums Top
Nah! he is actually really nice. Not like his old man who is a nasty cuss!

You're not a nasty cuss, take that back! I'm sure he is a nice man, and thats because he must have followed your lead!